MOI AUSSI! I knew that Soc-Anthro degree would come in handy one of
these decades!!
OH PLEASE…give Moi a break! Where do these women come from???! I
know, I know..I should be PRO all these Executive women types, but
sometimes I just want to say…WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE??!! After what
I would characterize as one of my busiest weeks to date, a good thing
I know, but sometimes….From having to find $$$ funding for a new
exhibition that wasn't going to happen and now everyone wants to
happen, and of course all eyes turned toward MOI to see if I can get
it funded…NO PRESSURE…HA HA HA! To having both groups of women, who
are renting out the Art Center for their school fundraisers arriving
at the EXACT same time (neither let MOI know they were coming) to go
over all details! FORTUNATELY….I can do this in my SLEEP! I am a
PROFESSIONAL!! HA! But, they seemed impressed that I had the floor
plans, coat racks, tables and as a bonus…menu suggestions!! Event
Planning at it's finest! Did I mention that all this was going on
while we were trying to set up for an exhibition opening…..Talk about
Multi-tasking!
So, how RELAXING to spend a Saturday at the Kellogg Marketing
Conference!! As I was rushing out the door Saturday a.m….Jeff gave
MOI a warning NOT to go shopping…No Danger Darling…although, I could
check out the Book Store!! Made it with just minutes to spare…the
Opening speaker was from Kellogg Company, of all things! He had a
nice title-Global VP of Consumer Insights…don't you think we could ALL
do that job….I mean think about it…we consume and we have insight!
What I love about this conference is that I get to test my brain to
see if I can still FOLLOW and UNDERSTAND the discussions!!!! Plus,
you get to check out all the new titles that abound!! I arrived and
met a cheerful looking fellow, who was also rushing in. When it gets
to be close to zero, you find that you are friendly to fellow freezing
folks! We shared pleasantries as we were running to get indoors!! He
asked what I did and I told him a title. He gave me a nod of approval
(that's a first!) and then told MOI what he did….VP of Consumer
Engineering blah..blah..blah…I gave him a BIG smile and nod of
approval!! Consumer Engineering…now that's something! Engineering
WHAT???? I wanted to ask, but we were both inside the lecture room by
now.
The speaker was giving a history of Frosted Flakes (a personal
favorite!) and how they are positioning an older brand for the future!
It turns out that Frosted Flakes isn't really about eating cereal, it
is about building self esteem and sports! WHO KNEW??? I just don't
remember getting that message as I ate my frosted flakes…I just
remember that they were filled with sugar and DELICIOUS!!! And
probably fattening…but, at that time, wasn't so concerned with
counting those calories!!!! AND I certainly wasn't interested in
nutritional qualities. To be honest, I was surprised they are still
making that cereal with the same formula?? I thought perhaps it would
be whole grain…maybe unsweetened?? OR better yet, sweetened with
Splenda???!! Kids love that and so much better for you than real
sugar!!! Nope, just changing the message and now it's about building
self esteem and Baseball fields! Well, there's a twist. To be
honest, I don't remember any cereal building a baseball field….this is
really something! He went on to give a fabulous power point about the
entire marketing strategy (wish I had it, could be useful for when I
am trying to sell those donors on that exhibition program…If eating
frosted flakes can build baseball fields…just THINK what a donation to
the exhibition program will do for THE WORLD!!!). They have set up a
website and you can go to it-put your child's picture on a page and it
will print out a baseball card with your child on it. Now, that's
something…you don't have to spend $60 to buy all those prints-you can
do it for free on this website…HMMMMMM maybe we could have a link to
the website and since the Moms are saving all that money downloading
the baseball card on this website-they could then take the money they
saved from not having to buy a zillion photos and donate it to the art
center!! Sounds like a plan,….but, the power point did not contain
that plan!
It went on to say that all types of marketing channels would be used
to create brand awareness and to get their message out that if you eat
Frosted Flakes and GO to a special Website, you can vote for your
favorite baseball field. Kellogg will pay to build new baseball
fields across the country for areas that don't have them! Each town
that wants a baseball field has to write a story and you can read all
the stories and VOTE for your favorite story. I wonder if you have to
put in the product scanning number in order to vote??? I found it
interesting that the advertising they were going to do would be in
magazines such as US, TV Guide and Touch magazine…HMMMMM….lots of Moms
must have changed their reading habits, since my kids were little??!
That would really reach a large audience….And then there is every
Mom's favorite – the end of aisle display (which has a fancy name, but
I can't remember it now). You know the one that sticks out with all
this stuff on it and you bump it with your cart, because if doesn't
fit in the aisle and all the boxes fall over and OH…THE WATER
BOTTLES…water bottles and Frosted Flakes…PERFECT would fall all over
the floor. I did think the orange water bottles were very cute! AND
I must say, they showed the box design in one of the slides…it was
interesting to see it in one dimension-it actually looked like a FEAT
of engineering!! During the Q and A, I was tempted to ask if they
were using a "control" group to see if eating Frosted Flakes did in
fact build self-esteem? Or perhaps, how were they going to measure
their results? Poll 50+ year olds who ate Frosted Flakes, not knowing
it could build self-esteem and see how many grew up to have
self-esteem on their own? What other factors could cause high
self-esteem besides cereal??? It seems to me a difficult thing to
measure?? It is one thing to grow up having high self-esteem without
knowing that you needed to have self-esteem vs. knowing that you could
build self-esteem by eating a certain cereal. I wanted to share my
concerns with fellow conference attendees, but they were much more
interested in texting each other during the lecture…and then rushing
out for the free snacks and coffee during the break!
I looked forward to my first "break out" session, a panel discussion
on the timely topic of "Minorities as the New Majority." Being a Baby
Boomer now qualifies one for being in the minorities mix-marketers are
now targeting this group, while still keeping their "consistent" brand
identity! I had NO IDEA that I had been relegated to a group that
wasn't targeted any longer. It just seems like the world has passed
MOI by!! So, it was with great interest that I wanted to listen to
how I was going to be targeted! The first woman started out with her
Cultural Anthropologist intro-she actually is THE VP of marketing
diversity at a cosmetics firm…NOW WHO KNEW these jobs were out
there???! She was very attractive, as you can imagine, and was hardly
wearing any make-up (maybe she should visit one of her PRESTIGE (as
she liked to put) counters in a department store to get a little
make-over…the natural look isn't so easy to carry off once you hit 40!
She had been a fashion designer and has been with this PRESTIGE
company for 10 years….She was wearing this incredible jewelry, so I
decided to concentrate on it, since I found her to be a little too
much about HER! She had on 4 different necklaces starting with a
chocker of light crystal beads (2 strands), then 2 strands of medium
colored looking stones-like citrine, followed with two more strands of
perhaps Black Jet beads and finishing with 2 strands of pearls. Each
necklace fit right below the next, not layers on top of each other,
but separate layers. The beads were all about the same size as the
pearls. It was FABULOUS!! This would be easy for all of you to do…I
know you have all these types of necklaces in your closets and wearing
just two strands doesn't look right. It also wasn't a "heavy" look
because they were all the same size! You could do the same thing with
bracelets…just put on different ones to get the "cuff" look. She
went on to discuss different target markets in her PRESTIGE (and every
time she said it-she said it very SLOWLY….with the accent falling on
the last syllable as in PahLEEZZZZ….) product lines. I found myself
fitting in with the "casual Lipstick user!" Finally, a name for it!
Although…I wanted more info on the Beauty Aficionados! What a FAB
title!
The panel also had a woman who CONFESSED to be 47 and she worked with
those aging baby boomers targeting products that would work for them.
Although, at 47 she didn't think that she was that old and was so
surprised that soon she would be over 50 and folks wouldn't target her
any longer. She seemed to be very concerned about this (or rather…I
could read between the lines, since I was probably the only one in the
audience who actually was OVER 50!). She also mentioned that part of
her job was working with senior management and HR to say that they
shouldn't let the 60 year old person go, even though a 23 year old
could do their job. The OLDER worker has something to contribute.
(Although, she didn't elaborate on what the 60 year old did
contribute) I thought that was charitable of her-but also could sense
that she could see the writing on the wall! She could do with a
little of those PRESTIGE make-up products to give her an edge as she
gets to that 50 (keep 'em guessing, I always say!!) She was also very
kind in that she felt that joining AARP doesn't mean that you are
old-I agree…you get all kinds of bargains! And it would be even
better if they added discounts at Neiman's to their list! I guarantee
more people would join!
I left the session relieved to know that I am a casual lipstick user
and diverse! Just THINK of the money I have saved not having to go to
an analyst!! I look forward to seeing a plethora of products that
will soon be targeted to MOI! Perhaps the folks at Kellogg with find
a way to give one a youthful glow by eating Frosted Flakes!
And again….just when you think things look bleak-a moment of
brightness! We had a wonderful Ikebana International meeting today.
It was a demonstration and workshop given by my teacher. We had it
downtown in the south loop, at a Flower Arranging school. One of the
members called to see if we could drive together. Of course, I don't
MIND..but, I often like to do errands on my way home….you know….And I
would have to drive 20 minutes out of my way to meet her at a central
location. Oh well…what's another 20 minutes. And here is what really
made MOI nervous…we had to meet at 9:00 a.m. on a Sunday morning. It
was hovering around zero, so I couldn't be late, since I didn't want
her to freeze! So, rushing around this a.m. trying to get there on
time..again….asking myself, WHY DO I DO THESE THINGS??! She was
waiting and fortunately, she hadn't been there long! We had a
pleasant ride down and the demonstration was terrific. She used a
silver leaf protea which has a silvery flower and the silver shade of
leaves was very cool! It was one of those arrangement where you have
to manipulate all the leaves and staple and tape them…I do love this
type of arrangement, but it isn't the easiest for MOI! Also, I have
been hit or miss on taking classes over the past few years, so I get a
bit nervous when I am arranging with all the Japanese ladies!
(although, they are very kind and would NEVER say anything to MOI-but,
I know when they are talking about MOI!). And as we all know with
Ikebana, sometimes it can get rough, with teachers taking out your
entire arrangement and "helping" you do it "a better way." In the
interest of time, I went about making my arrangement finishing within
about 15 minutes "….in Ikebana one THINKS about the arrangement for 45
minutes and arranges in 15 minutes." I was in the back of room, so I
don't know if my teacher was tired by the time she got to my
arrangement, or was actually sincere. I stood waiting for the
"critique." Ready to take action and rearrange. She walked up and
looked at it and, I KID YOU NOT….said, "Oh my, (with a surprised tone
in her voice) you are so talented, you truly understand this." I just
about fell over! I KID YOU NOT…this has NEVER happened to MOI! She
then went on to call everyone over to look at the arrangement and
DIDN'T TOUCH a thing!
I leave you with the Fashion column from FORBES magazine…known for
their fashion columns!
It is way beyond price points I would recommend, except I have to get
that Pencil skirt-but the ideas are there!!!
Have a great week!!
Love, P
These days, the economy is forcing even the biggest shopaholics to put
the breaks on spending. And clothing may be one of the first things to
go. Fashion diet? Yes. But it doesn't have to feel like starvation:
Take a leaf out of the French woman's book and learn to shop smart.
Here, five tips from stylish women on how to dress gorgeously and save
money while doing so.
American women love markdowns and tend to shop impulsively. French
women, by contrast, shop with a plan and buy selectively. They only
head to a clothing store when they need a particular item.
Internet entrepreneur Ludovica Pellicioli, who works at the Web
start-up Liquida in Milan, developed her shopping expertise in Paris
where she grew up. "I always approach shopping with a plan in mind,"
she says. "This is what I need, this is what I would like and this is
where I can find it. Shopping is rarely the sole purpose of an
outing."
In Pictures: Eight Essential Items For A Perfect Wardrobe
Pellicioli plans her wardrobe each season by assessing what she
already has in her closet and adding carefully to her collection. For
her winter wardrobe this year she purchased a jacket designed by Rick
Owens. She paid about $2,000, but she wears the jacket several days
each week--sometimes with slacks, sometimes over a dress and to both
daytime and evening events.
Shop Selectively
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American women have a habit of splurging for items they don't
particularly need. French women avoid splurges by shopping for just a
half-dozen indispensable wardrobe items each year.
French designer Anne Fontaine, known for her white shirts, says that
"besides a beautiful blouse, every woman should have a great pair of
jeans, black pants, a perfect skirt, a perfect little black dress and
a jacket for each season."
Consider this collection of basics a jumping off point--with a few
accessories added in, there are endless outfit possibilities. A little
black dress, for example, can be dressed up with fine jewelry for a
formal event, paired with a jacket for a business dinner or worn with
strappy sandals for a cocktail party.
Assess Every Purchase
French women assess how often they will be able to wear every item
they purchase. Designer Catherine Malandrino advises women to think
carefully about their buys. "French women are not just picking
something because it is in fashion," Malandrino explains. "She gives
more thought to it. How many times can she wear it? Is it versatile
enough to go from day, to work, to cocktails? And will she want to
wear it again and again?"
That sequined jacket may look great on a store rack but most likely it
won't be wearable at the office. A tuxedo blazer, on the other hand,
can be paired with jeans for a casual look or with a satin shift for a
formal evening event.
Born in Grenoble, France, Malandrino learned from her French mother
how to build a distinct wardrobe, buying only comfortable clothes that
were made of high-quality fabrics. "My mother had an Yves Saint
Laurent blouse that she always wore. Year after year, season after
season, it never seemed to age."
Know When to Splurge … and On What
Building a quality wardrobe requires spending more on less and
investing in great accessories. Forking over $800 for a Louis Vuitton
bag or over $5,000 for a Hermès Kelly bag may seem highly extravagant,
but when the cost is amortized over several decades of use, the bag's
price tag may seem more reasonable. Other pricey items, such as
colorful designer silk scarves or a pair of designer pumps, also can
last for years.
"French women prefer quality over quantity," says Fontaine. "This
holds true from our fashion choices to the food and wine we drink.
Quality of life overall is very important in the French lifestyle."
Skip the Trends
Instead of following trends, French women are loyal to the styles and
colors that look best on them. After all, copying what's on the
runways isn't for everyone. French style icons like actress Catherine
Deneuve, known for her black cocktail dresses and trench coats, forge
their own signature styles and stick to them.
Deborah Ricard, who works in public relations for TSE cashmere and
grew up in Versailles, France, says women in France embrace their
individuality. "They will never wear what the magazines and
celebrities tell them to wear. Instead, they choose and wear clothes
[that fit] their personality. It is more about what feels right and
looks good on you. Most of all it has to look effortless."
One of Ricard's biggest pet peeves is seeing women in head-to-toe
designer looks. She advocates creatively mixing and matching different
styles instead.
For her part, Ricard mixes vintage and new pieces, along with
expensive designer items and cheap finds. Malandrino is another
champion of dressing eclectically and enjoys pairing cocktail dresses
with motorcycle jackets and mixing jeans and T-shirts with unique
vintage jewelry or belts. "Women should be their own stylists," she
says.
Little Black Dress
The little black dress is an essential piece in any woman's wardrobe.
Go for the best fit, avoiding any cuts that might be too trendy. There
are a lot of black dress options and you should try on at least a
dozen before deciding what looks best on you.
Whether it's sleeveless, has short sleeves, is straighter or more
full--your black dress should be ultra flattering.
Catherine Malandrino's sleeveless dress, $425, is perfectly versatile
Trench Coat
Soon after it was designed by Thomas Burberry for soldiers to wear
during World War I, the trench coat became a fashion must-have for
women as well as men. Wear it over jeans and instantly transform
yourself into Audrey Hepburn. Wear it over a cocktail dress for a
dressed-down but polished evening look.
Burberry's taffeta wrap trench, $1,195, from the spring 2009
collection is an investment you will wear for years
Black Suit
Everyone needs a great black suit. It also happens to be one of the
hardest items to shop for. Make sure to consider the fit and fabric
when shopping. Also make sure you like the jacket and pants as
separates. There are endless possibilities for wearing a suit
jacket--over a cocktail dress, with jeans or with a colorful skirt.
And everyone needs a great pair of black pants.
Charles Nolan's latest black suit, will take you from the office to dinner.
Cashmere Sweater
Cashmere sweaters like TSE's basic turtleneck, $425, last longer and
look more elegant than merino wool sweaters. Pair with black trousers
for a casual day at work or wear it around your shoulders during a
cocktail event to fight the chill.
Ballet Flats
Heels are great, but let's face it, most of us don't have the pain
tolerance to wear them at work all day, every day. A great pair of
ballet flats can be worn on your way to work and then traded for
heels. They also add an elegant but casual appeal to anything in your
wardrobe.
The iconic French label Repetto's classic ballet flats, $220, have
been worn by style icons from Brigtte Bardot to Sarah Jessica Parker.
Pencil Skirt
The pencil skirt is back in fashion. Pair it with a white blouse for
work, a cashmere sweater in the evening or a T-shirt on the weekend.
French Connection's Checker Play skirt, $39.99, looks great at a great
price point, too.
Black Pumps
If you're going to splurge on one pair of great black pumps, make sure
they're comfortable because you'll wear them with everything.
Christian Louboutin has perfected the black pump with styles like the
Decollete, $575, which instantly transforms the look and feel of an
outfit.
White Blouse
A classic white blouse can work with any outfit, and French designer
Anne Fontaine knows this well. A white blouse can be worn just as
easily on casual Fridays as it can to a black-tie affair with a
taffeta skirt.
Anne Fontaine's Milous blouse, $395, has enough detail to make it a
standout but is classic enough to make it a basic.
Monday, January 26, 2009
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
BRT
You know, as in BRAIN REPLACEMENT THERAPY! Jeff thinks I need it! My
Boss wishes I had it and I am very sure my BOYS have signed MOI up for
it! AND WHY isn't it available????? We already have PMS (personal
monitoring systems) that allow spouses to chart our every move. And
how is it this you ask???? BECAUSE they can track all our purchases
online! I am convinced those purchases are even time stamped! It is
such a joy to come home and to be told where I had been and what I had
purchased…leaves little left for conversation!!! If they start
providing itemized info on those charges…I AM DOOMED!!!! AND there is
no grace period…no lag time…just 24/7!!! How did WE allow this to
happen????? Maybe best to go back to paying cash for everything!
Just have to explain those LARGE withdrawals!!
Watching Oprah the other evening with a show featuring HRT (and we ALL
know what that stands for!). Dr. Phil's wife has written a book about
her struggles and symptoms to watch for as one heads into menopause.
Those symptoms sounded very scary…memory loss, no energy to do all the
stuff you don't really want to do..AMEN to all that! Who wants to do
all that stuff anyway!! I am actually happy that I can now blame it
on "M" Factor instead of blaming myself for saying YES once too often!
I didn't follow Oprah's advice from her Just say NO show-but, I am
listening now!!! AND now I am off the hook for my irratic, irrational
and hysterical behavior-it's menopause baby!! One of the virtues of
becoming 50 is that you now become part of the DIVERSITY (i.e.
OUTREACH) demographic! WOO WHO!! Love being OUTREACH! I feel the
POWER! And speaking of power…..
Times are tough all around-of course, tell us something we don't
already know! With 30% of the fiscal year over at work we had our
finance committee meeting to go over everything. I was very excited
about doing this, since I LOVE to be fiscally responsible! Upon
reviewing the goals-MY events during this period exceeded last year's
goals, but fell short of this year's budget! This good news is that I
was able to write grants to cover this shortfall (YEAH!)-However, when
one presents the fiscal reports to the Board-budgets are always open
to interpretation!! I made it VERY clear when the Budget was sent to
the Board for approval, that the fundraising goals had been increased
over the previous year. It was one of my better performances….hoping
to inspire all Board Members to get out there and FUNDRAISE!!!! It's
a Catch 22…if we didn't increase the fundraising goals, the budget
wouldn't be passed! However, at the time…I felt we were all up to the
task! WHO KNEW we would head into these times of financial
difficulty!
But, alas….great minds forget discussion had in the recent past…so
when the finance committee met prior to the Board meeting (lots of
meetings this week!) the chair was not so pleased and pointed out that
I had an "aggressive" approach to fundraising! Now, you can say many
things about MOI, but "aggressive" anything…just doesn't fit! Of
course, I FELT like saying-hey…we are all in this together and I THINK
I spoke up about this several months ago...which you all approved!
However, I just smiled and said that it's true-we have fundraising
goals that are ambitious and I would do my best to meet those goals!!!
I felt it had a better ring to it! What else can you say???
OOPPSSSSS! Hmmmm, I don't think so! No one follows those numbers any
closer than MOI! So…as soon as the meeting was over-I ran into my
office and burst into tears!!! It must be the "M" factor!! Had to
quickly refresh my make-up, since I was heading out to dinner with
High School friends-a reunion of sorts! Drove with dear friend Nora,
and of course blurted out the details of the afternoon! I was still
so upset. It reminded MOI of the times when you had to tell all your
friends how mean so and so had been to you!! You never forget some
things!!
Nora just turned to MOI and said, "P, pull yourself together! You
have a MBA from Kellogg-you can rise above this!! Take that HIGH
ROAD! Tomorrow at the Board meeting, just go in there and defend your
position!" And that is EXACTLY what I did! When the report came up,
I remained calm, cool and collected. No other Board members said a
word! When everything around you is collapsing-dear friends and a
nice glass of VINO will always save you!
And speaking of VINO….a NEW study on Living Longer reported that one
can live longer consuming up to 15 glasses of VINO a week! WOO
WHOOOOO that is 2 glasses a day..over 730 glasses a YEAR! HOWEVER, if
you go to 4 glasses you are in BIG TROUBLE! NO KIDDING! You probably
can't MOVE! The study also found that people who volunteer live
longer! Are YOU Kidding MOI! Vino and Volunteering-the KEY to
longevity! This could be the new marketing pitch-the way to raise
funds! Entice folks to volunteer at the Art Center and serve them
VINO! It could be part of our "Living Longer through the Arts
Campaign!"
I know that I have "arrived" at the Art Center (it has only taken a
year!!). Our most famous faculty member stopped MOI in the hallway
the other day. She wanted to "discuss" something with MOI-of course,
I was bracing for the worst! Most faculty ask MOI to write grants for
special programs that they will teach…I have to reply that it doesn't
work that way…we write grants for certain things and then fit the
faculty to the program…I was most intrigued and as the same time
apprehensive….one false step and it could be curtains for MOI! She
has a large following and one can't afford to alienate any group! She
started out with a compliment on all my outreach "partnering" efforts.
WE ALL KNOW WHAT IS COMING NEXT…..I am on the Board of this
organization and they would like to hold an event with the Art
Center…I just smiled….We can make this happen! You have to know when
to say YES!
Patsy had given MOI a lovely garnet circle pin from my grandmother.
She said that I had admired it as a child. Experiencing memory loss
these days….I didn't remember the pin, but it is lovely and a family
heirloom…something to pass on to future generations!! The lovely pin
needed some refreshing as a few stones were missing and it needed to
be returned to its former glamour! I picked it up from the Jeweler and
was discussing the story with him. He sells beautiful antique
jewelry, so an authority of sorts! I was inquiring how I would wear
it and he said that it is perfect with pearls. He pulled out several
lovely strands..NO, I did not buy any pearls-tempting as it may be!
He continued to say that this style of pin is HIGHLY collectible….I
felt like I was on Antique Roadshow! "Really??" It's from the
1890's… "REALLY???" I had no idea! I just smiled and said, "it's a
family heirloom and NOT FOR SALE!"
It's rough here in the Windy City-we are having one of THOSE
winters….Tons of snow and freezing temperatures with several days
clocking 25 below zero wind chill factor! Although, let's be
honest…anything below 20 degrees is just plain COLD! The other
morning, I had the refrigerator door open and I thought-perhaps I
should keep it open to warm things up a bit!
Last Call starts at Neiman's on TUESDAY!!!!! GO! Put Kohl's on your
spring shopping list! Simply Vera line has some adorable skirts!
Several articles recommend looking at CLAIRE'S for great
jewelry-always!! For an "of the moment" update to your wardrobe-head
over to Urban Outfitter www.urbanoutfitters.com, click on accessories
and buy this adorable Mesh lace necklace for $78. It is large-but not
overwhelming!!! Also, keep those cuffs ready to go! This time try to
see if you can wear two or three of them up your arm (I know – this
may not be so simple!!). and My FAVORITE!
www.yummietummie.com Their tops cling, yet covers those bulges! FABULOUS!
Have a great week!!
Love, P
Boss wishes I had it and I am very sure my BOYS have signed MOI up for
it! AND WHY isn't it available????? We already have PMS (personal
monitoring systems) that allow spouses to chart our every move. And
how is it this you ask???? BECAUSE they can track all our purchases
online! I am convinced those purchases are even time stamped! It is
such a joy to come home and to be told where I had been and what I had
purchased…leaves little left for conversation!!! If they start
providing itemized info on those charges…I AM DOOMED!!!! AND there is
no grace period…no lag time…just 24/7!!! How did WE allow this to
happen????? Maybe best to go back to paying cash for everything!
Just have to explain those LARGE withdrawals!!
Watching Oprah the other evening with a show featuring HRT (and we ALL
know what that stands for!). Dr. Phil's wife has written a book about
her struggles and symptoms to watch for as one heads into menopause.
Those symptoms sounded very scary…memory loss, no energy to do all the
stuff you don't really want to do..AMEN to all that! Who wants to do
all that stuff anyway!! I am actually happy that I can now blame it
on "M" Factor instead of blaming myself for saying YES once too often!
I didn't follow Oprah's advice from her Just say NO show-but, I am
listening now!!! AND now I am off the hook for my irratic, irrational
and hysterical behavior-it's menopause baby!! One of the virtues of
becoming 50 is that you now become part of the DIVERSITY (i.e.
OUTREACH) demographic! WOO WHO!! Love being OUTREACH! I feel the
POWER! And speaking of power…..
Times are tough all around-of course, tell us something we don't
already know! With 30% of the fiscal year over at work we had our
finance committee meeting to go over everything. I was very excited
about doing this, since I LOVE to be fiscally responsible! Upon
reviewing the goals-MY events during this period exceeded last year's
goals, but fell short of this year's budget! This good news is that I
was able to write grants to cover this shortfall (YEAH!)-However, when
one presents the fiscal reports to the Board-budgets are always open
to interpretation!! I made it VERY clear when the Budget was sent to
the Board for approval, that the fundraising goals had been increased
over the previous year. It was one of my better performances….hoping
to inspire all Board Members to get out there and FUNDRAISE!!!! It's
a Catch 22…if we didn't increase the fundraising goals, the budget
wouldn't be passed! However, at the time…I felt we were all up to the
task! WHO KNEW we would head into these times of financial
difficulty!
But, alas….great minds forget discussion had in the recent past…so
when the finance committee met prior to the Board meeting (lots of
meetings this week!) the chair was not so pleased and pointed out that
I had an "aggressive" approach to fundraising! Now, you can say many
things about MOI, but "aggressive" anything…just doesn't fit! Of
course, I FELT like saying-hey…we are all in this together and I THINK
I spoke up about this several months ago...which you all approved!
However, I just smiled and said that it's true-we have fundraising
goals that are ambitious and I would do my best to meet those goals!!!
I felt it had a better ring to it! What else can you say???
OOPPSSSSS! Hmmmm, I don't think so! No one follows those numbers any
closer than MOI! So…as soon as the meeting was over-I ran into my
office and burst into tears!!! It must be the "M" factor!! Had to
quickly refresh my make-up, since I was heading out to dinner with
High School friends-a reunion of sorts! Drove with dear friend Nora,
and of course blurted out the details of the afternoon! I was still
so upset. It reminded MOI of the times when you had to tell all your
friends how mean so and so had been to you!! You never forget some
things!!
Nora just turned to MOI and said, "P, pull yourself together! You
have a MBA from Kellogg-you can rise above this!! Take that HIGH
ROAD! Tomorrow at the Board meeting, just go in there and defend your
position!" And that is EXACTLY what I did! When the report came up,
I remained calm, cool and collected. No other Board members said a
word! When everything around you is collapsing-dear friends and a
nice glass of VINO will always save you!
And speaking of VINO….a NEW study on Living Longer reported that one
can live longer consuming up to 15 glasses of VINO a week! WOO
WHOOOOO that is 2 glasses a day..over 730 glasses a YEAR! HOWEVER, if
you go to 4 glasses you are in BIG TROUBLE! NO KIDDING! You probably
can't MOVE! The study also found that people who volunteer live
longer! Are YOU Kidding MOI! Vino and Volunteering-the KEY to
longevity! This could be the new marketing pitch-the way to raise
funds! Entice folks to volunteer at the Art Center and serve them
VINO! It could be part of our "Living Longer through the Arts
Campaign!"
I know that I have "arrived" at the Art Center (it has only taken a
year!!). Our most famous faculty member stopped MOI in the hallway
the other day. She wanted to "discuss" something with MOI-of course,
I was bracing for the worst! Most faculty ask MOI to write grants for
special programs that they will teach…I have to reply that it doesn't
work that way…we write grants for certain things and then fit the
faculty to the program…I was most intrigued and as the same time
apprehensive….one false step and it could be curtains for MOI! She
has a large following and one can't afford to alienate any group! She
started out with a compliment on all my outreach "partnering" efforts.
WE ALL KNOW WHAT IS COMING NEXT…..I am on the Board of this
organization and they would like to hold an event with the Art
Center…I just smiled….We can make this happen! You have to know when
to say YES!
Patsy had given MOI a lovely garnet circle pin from my grandmother.
She said that I had admired it as a child. Experiencing memory loss
these days….I didn't remember the pin, but it is lovely and a family
heirloom…something to pass on to future generations!! The lovely pin
needed some refreshing as a few stones were missing and it needed to
be returned to its former glamour! I picked it up from the Jeweler and
was discussing the story with him. He sells beautiful antique
jewelry, so an authority of sorts! I was inquiring how I would wear
it and he said that it is perfect with pearls. He pulled out several
lovely strands..NO, I did not buy any pearls-tempting as it may be!
He continued to say that this style of pin is HIGHLY collectible….I
felt like I was on Antique Roadshow! "Really??" It's from the
1890's… "REALLY???" I had no idea! I just smiled and said, "it's a
family heirloom and NOT FOR SALE!"
It's rough here in the Windy City-we are having one of THOSE
winters….Tons of snow and freezing temperatures with several days
clocking 25 below zero wind chill factor! Although, let's be
honest…anything below 20 degrees is just plain COLD! The other
morning, I had the refrigerator door open and I thought-perhaps I
should keep it open to warm things up a bit!
Last Call starts at Neiman's on TUESDAY!!!!! GO! Put Kohl's on your
spring shopping list! Simply Vera line has some adorable skirts!
Several articles recommend looking at CLAIRE'S for great
jewelry-always!! For an "of the moment" update to your wardrobe-head
over to Urban Outfitter www.urbanoutfitters.com, click on accessories
and buy this adorable Mesh lace necklace for $78. It is large-but not
overwhelming!!! Also, keep those cuffs ready to go! This time try to
see if you can wear two or three of them up your arm (I know – this
may not be so simple!!). and My FAVORITE!
www.yummietummie.com Their tops cling, yet covers those bulges! FABULOUS!
Have a great week!!
Love, P
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
“I guess we had a failure to COMMUNICATE….”
Things were going along as best as can be expected! It is nice to
have time off during the holidays…but, let's be honest…one really
doesn't get time off, since life marches on. You only get a chance to
take a "break!" My "Holiday" started with yours truly, spending
several hours picking up artwork at the FedEx Corporate facility. Any
self-respecting Mom is on a first name basis with the lovely folks at
the FedEx facility in Northbrook, since they are open until 9:00 p.m.
for pick up and sending. But, now life is a bit easier for all of us
because you can go to Kinkos to do that last minute mailing of all
those important items that your children have left at home and need
IMMEDIATELY. In fact, I felt very much "in the know" on Saturday,
when I was sending Jeffrey a few items that he had "left." Naturally,
he called MOI after the post office had closed, so headed to Kinkos
and was busy preparing my box, when I overheard a woman discussing her
FedEx needs with the nice fellow behind the counter (note to dear
readers, this was a different fellow than the one that I had the
experience with last fall!!!). She was sending several boxes to her
daughter (must be a freshman, since she didn't know the drill). Lots
of large ZAPPOS boxes (love this!) filled with items that didn't fit
in her suitcase. The shipping ended up costing $150, not bad I
thought for 5 large boxes!!! The mother just about had a heart
attack. Then she started with the…I will repack the boxes myself…etc.
I just smiled as I completed my forms. The young man behind the desk
said that she could, but once you get over a certain
weight..blah..blah..blah..it truly doesn't make any difference! I
took my place in line and hoped that she would SURRENDER quickly
because it was really snowing outside and I still had lots of errands
to do!!
Where was I???? FedEx o.k., so, the day before vacation, the
exhibition curator calls to see if the artwork from one of the artists
has arrived by FedEx. This is on Friday. The curator said the artist
sent it from New York on Monday. Hmmm….I didn't see it, but told her
I would look for it and call her back ASAP. I asked what size –
4 ft. x 6 ft. Hmmmm…that should be easy to spot!! Went searching in
the usual places and NO SIGN of a large box. Called back the curator
and asked her to get the tracking number and I would take it from
there. Did I mention that it was SNOWING….and I think the airports
were closed-didn't look promising. She called back with the tracking
number and then the information that the package was sent on Wednesday
for guaranteed arrival by Christmas (this is December 19th). O.K.
Well, let's see…Wednesday is not Monday and we were closing on the
19th for two weeks and wouldn't be here to receive it after Friday. I
would say a Failure to Communicate! Hmmmmmm…went online to track the
package and found it had arrived at 6 am that morning! HOORAY! At
least it was in Chicago!! Reported the info back the curator. Then
she wanted to know how late we would be working on Friday…O.K. Did I
mention it was snowing…it had snowed about 8-10 inches, so several
employees hadn't made it into work, because their cars were snowed in.
Not that I would EVER leave early, but it was a holiday vacation
coming up….I told her I would stay until 5 p.m. She seemed happy
about this. And here's the thing-she is one of the nicest people, so
I really couldn't get all bent out of shape about it….but, as the day
went by….and no artwork…..I had to go to plan B-Decided around 3 p.m.
to call FedEx to see what my options would be if the artwork arrived
on Monday or if I could pick it up! Chatted with a nice fellow who
told MOI that I could pick it up on Monday at the Commercial location
in Wheeling. He would tell them to hold it there for MOI! I
thought-thank goodness-a plan B! Called back the curator and told her
that I would pick it up on Monday. I wasn't sure where the place was
located, but I had the general idea. I thought this is easier than
waiting for it to arrive! She thought that would be fabulous! She
didn't offer to pick it up…but, as I have said-she is a lovely person
and very hard working…one does what one has to do!!
Did I mention that it continued to snow all weekend?? So all my plans
of getting errands completed and ready to go away for Christmas were
way behind schedule! On Monday, the curator kept calling in the a.m.
to see if I had picked up. Now, you can imagine how my day OFF was
going…already running late, snow, freezing and having to drive to the
Commercial location which was a 30 minute drive on a good day! I took
a deep breath and remembered to take the HIGH ROAD (always) and found
the location. A bit tricky trying to figure out how to enter the
location. Turns out it is a very SECURE location. You park and then
have to enter a small building for "security clearance" before you can
enter the main building. All this and I still wasn't completely sure
they even had the artwork!! Arrived at the small building-didn't
realize I would have to take off all my outer layers…(similar to the
airport!). Relieved that I was given the O.K. and then headed out to
the next building. Walked into an office building and there was just
a big empty room, with little cubicles off to one side.
HELLOOOOOOO???? "I'm here to pick up a package??!!" Fortunately, a
nice woman popped up and said that she could help MOI! (Note to self,
remember to make more noise when I return in the future (you all know
that this is going to happen again!!!!) I explain my situation (by
now another ½ hour has gone by!!!!) and then she tells MOI to have a
seat while I am waiting. Are you kidding MOI-just get me the @$!$%@^
package and let me out of here!! I know she is trying to be nice,
but I really needed to be moving along! I chose to stand while I
waited, so I had the opportunity to look into her cubicle. She had
some cute pictures of her kids and this being the Holiday Season, I
told her that her kid's pictures were adorable….She flashed a big
smile and said that they were her grandchildren. Then a discussion of
how young she looked…..FINALLY, the package arrived! It was rather
large and I hoped it wasn't heavy because I would be the one lugging
it into the car and then into the art center. I gave the woman my
business card, since it was not addressed to moi-she smiled and said
that she was going to give MOI a call because she was interested in
taking art classes in the spring!
Spent this week preparing for the big opening of the exhibition today.
Artwork all arrived and several artists installed their own work. I
had told the curator last fall, that I had managed to rent out the Art
Center for an event that would be held during the exhibition. She had
assured MOI that all the installations would be on the wall, so it
wouldn't be a problem. I was very excited about the rental, since it
would be a new source of income for the Art Center!! One has to be
"creative" during "these times!!" Fortunately for MOI, I have already
lived through several of "these times"…so I Know this drill!!! Truly
a benefit of being old!! I just wish I knew everything, because that
would make things so much easier! I happened to be walking by one of
the galleries as an artist was installing her work. I noticed that
she was putting "text" (FYI- very popular these days!) on the floor
with yarn. AND it was taking up most of the floor space in the
gallery. I just looked at the curator and said, "I have a rental for
this room and they will need to WALK in this space." The curator said
that she knew but, "I guess there was a COMMUNICATION
misunderstanding." Between WHOM????
Fear not dear readers…I have figured out a plan that will make all
parties happy. I may have to rethink my "rental" program going
forward!!!!
Watching Oprah and Suzy this week on "New Life" week or something like
that-I was not so inspired. Suzy suggests that to save money, you
should just stay home and NOT spend money. I wonder if I should send
her that article so she can do her own Pedicure! I did try to stay
home the other evening and not spend any money. It actually was fun!
I spent it researching shoe websites!! Found one, www.footcandy.com
to be quite fabulous!! Also, Payless provided some great buys for
spring! Check out the new Lela Rose line at Payless! The Palmetto
Peep Wedge and the Marigold Satin Flat features " a beautiful satin
upper with contrasting piping and an elegant D'Orsay silhouette."
This may be the closest I get to a D'Orsay anything!! Also, the
Analucia Halter Tote of "quality" canvas and glossy patent, and a
woven rope panel detail. It is very cute! Each under $30 – how can
you go wrong??!!
And here are a few tips to "rework" your wardrobe! A popular theme
right now! Again, similar to last week's searching for all those
fabulous Valentino ensembles that you have hidden in the back corners
of your closet!!! Take your Black Blazer and wear it over
EVERYTHING!! Make sure it is hip length, so it can go over
everything!! One suggestion is to put it over your evening frock (not
so sure on that one-would really depend on the frock!). But, it looks
very nice belted over a skirt and top, or pants and top. Also try
pushing up your sleeves to make it look "fresh!" And if you don't
have the fabulous blazer or your blazer isn't so fabulous-Head over to
Club Monaco!! Their "Manhattan Tex" wool blazer is very nice and will
do the trick! It might even be on sale!!! Also, check out Zara-they
are a great source for something like this!
Next find that Skinny Belt – Kohls and Tarjay have a nice selection!
See if you can find one in faux leather python! You can wear it with
a shift, over a cardigan (make sure it isn't too think-don't want that
"sausage look"), or with your jacket from above!! AND wear your
favorite white shirt under these looks! Don't have one-try the
Gap-They have a great one for $39.50!!! You can wear it over a tank
top or untucked under a sweater (makes it easy, since they always
become untucked anyway! Who knew you were already so chic!) Also try
to mix up day and night. If you pair tailored looks with pieces made
from evening fabrics-it looks very NEW! Try that white shirt with a
lace skirt and boots! VOILA-you are good to go!!!
Have a great week and try to stay home and out of the stores!!! HA HA HA!
XO,
P
have time off during the holidays…but, let's be honest…one really
doesn't get time off, since life marches on. You only get a chance to
take a "break!" My "Holiday" started with yours truly, spending
several hours picking up artwork at the FedEx Corporate facility. Any
self-respecting Mom is on a first name basis with the lovely folks at
the FedEx facility in Northbrook, since they are open until 9:00 p.m.
for pick up and sending. But, now life is a bit easier for all of us
because you can go to Kinkos to do that last minute mailing of all
those important items that your children have left at home and need
IMMEDIATELY. In fact, I felt very much "in the know" on Saturday,
when I was sending Jeffrey a few items that he had "left." Naturally,
he called MOI after the post office had closed, so headed to Kinkos
and was busy preparing my box, when I overheard a woman discussing her
FedEx needs with the nice fellow behind the counter (note to dear
readers, this was a different fellow than the one that I had the
experience with last fall!!!). She was sending several boxes to her
daughter (must be a freshman, since she didn't know the drill). Lots
of large ZAPPOS boxes (love this!) filled with items that didn't fit
in her suitcase. The shipping ended up costing $150, not bad I
thought for 5 large boxes!!! The mother just about had a heart
attack. Then she started with the…I will repack the boxes myself…etc.
I just smiled as I completed my forms. The young man behind the desk
said that she could, but once you get over a certain
weight..blah..blah..blah..it truly doesn't make any difference! I
took my place in line and hoped that she would SURRENDER quickly
because it was really snowing outside and I still had lots of errands
to do!!
Where was I???? FedEx o.k., so, the day before vacation, the
exhibition curator calls to see if the artwork from one of the artists
has arrived by FedEx. This is on Friday. The curator said the artist
sent it from New York on Monday. Hmmm….I didn't see it, but told her
I would look for it and call her back ASAP. I asked what size –
4 ft. x 6 ft. Hmmmm…that should be easy to spot!! Went searching in
the usual places and NO SIGN of a large box. Called back the curator
and asked her to get the tracking number and I would take it from
there. Did I mention that it was SNOWING….and I think the airports
were closed-didn't look promising. She called back with the tracking
number and then the information that the package was sent on Wednesday
for guaranteed arrival by Christmas (this is December 19th). O.K.
Well, let's see…Wednesday is not Monday and we were closing on the
19th for two weeks and wouldn't be here to receive it after Friday. I
would say a Failure to Communicate! Hmmmmmm…went online to track the
package and found it had arrived at 6 am that morning! HOORAY! At
least it was in Chicago!! Reported the info back the curator. Then
she wanted to know how late we would be working on Friday…O.K. Did I
mention it was snowing…it had snowed about 8-10 inches, so several
employees hadn't made it into work, because their cars were snowed in.
Not that I would EVER leave early, but it was a holiday vacation
coming up….I told her I would stay until 5 p.m. She seemed happy
about this. And here's the thing-she is one of the nicest people, so
I really couldn't get all bent out of shape about it….but, as the day
went by….and no artwork…..I had to go to plan B-Decided around 3 p.m.
to call FedEx to see what my options would be if the artwork arrived
on Monday or if I could pick it up! Chatted with a nice fellow who
told MOI that I could pick it up on Monday at the Commercial location
in Wheeling. He would tell them to hold it there for MOI! I
thought-thank goodness-a plan B! Called back the curator and told her
that I would pick it up on Monday. I wasn't sure where the place was
located, but I had the general idea. I thought this is easier than
waiting for it to arrive! She thought that would be fabulous! She
didn't offer to pick it up…but, as I have said-she is a lovely person
and very hard working…one does what one has to do!!
Did I mention that it continued to snow all weekend?? So all my plans
of getting errands completed and ready to go away for Christmas were
way behind schedule! On Monday, the curator kept calling in the a.m.
to see if I had picked up. Now, you can imagine how my day OFF was
going…already running late, snow, freezing and having to drive to the
Commercial location which was a 30 minute drive on a good day! I took
a deep breath and remembered to take the HIGH ROAD (always) and found
the location. A bit tricky trying to figure out how to enter the
location. Turns out it is a very SECURE location. You park and then
have to enter a small building for "security clearance" before you can
enter the main building. All this and I still wasn't completely sure
they even had the artwork!! Arrived at the small building-didn't
realize I would have to take off all my outer layers…(similar to the
airport!). Relieved that I was given the O.K. and then headed out to
the next building. Walked into an office building and there was just
a big empty room, with little cubicles off to one side.
HELLOOOOOOO???? "I'm here to pick up a package??!!" Fortunately, a
nice woman popped up and said that she could help MOI! (Note to self,
remember to make more noise when I return in the future (you all know
that this is going to happen again!!!!) I explain my situation (by
now another ½ hour has gone by!!!!) and then she tells MOI to have a
seat while I am waiting. Are you kidding MOI-just get me the @$!$%@^
package and let me out of here!! I know she is trying to be nice,
but I really needed to be moving along! I chose to stand while I
waited, so I had the opportunity to look into her cubicle. She had
some cute pictures of her kids and this being the Holiday Season, I
told her that her kid's pictures were adorable….She flashed a big
smile and said that they were her grandchildren. Then a discussion of
how young she looked…..FINALLY, the package arrived! It was rather
large and I hoped it wasn't heavy because I would be the one lugging
it into the car and then into the art center. I gave the woman my
business card, since it was not addressed to moi-she smiled and said
that she was going to give MOI a call because she was interested in
taking art classes in the spring!
Spent this week preparing for the big opening of the exhibition today.
Artwork all arrived and several artists installed their own work. I
had told the curator last fall, that I had managed to rent out the Art
Center for an event that would be held during the exhibition. She had
assured MOI that all the installations would be on the wall, so it
wouldn't be a problem. I was very excited about the rental, since it
would be a new source of income for the Art Center!! One has to be
"creative" during "these times!!" Fortunately for MOI, I have already
lived through several of "these times"…so I Know this drill!!! Truly
a benefit of being old!! I just wish I knew everything, because that
would make things so much easier! I happened to be walking by one of
the galleries as an artist was installing her work. I noticed that
she was putting "text" (FYI- very popular these days!) on the floor
with yarn. AND it was taking up most of the floor space in the
gallery. I just looked at the curator and said, "I have a rental for
this room and they will need to WALK in this space." The curator said
that she knew but, "I guess there was a COMMUNICATION
misunderstanding." Between WHOM????
Fear not dear readers…I have figured out a plan that will make all
parties happy. I may have to rethink my "rental" program going
forward!!!!
Watching Oprah and Suzy this week on "New Life" week or something like
that-I was not so inspired. Suzy suggests that to save money, you
should just stay home and NOT spend money. I wonder if I should send
her that article so she can do her own Pedicure! I did try to stay
home the other evening and not spend any money. It actually was fun!
I spent it researching shoe websites!! Found one, www.footcandy.com
to be quite fabulous!! Also, Payless provided some great buys for
spring! Check out the new Lela Rose line at Payless! The Palmetto
Peep Wedge and the Marigold Satin Flat features " a beautiful satin
upper with contrasting piping and an elegant D'Orsay silhouette."
This may be the closest I get to a D'Orsay anything!! Also, the
Analucia Halter Tote of "quality" canvas and glossy patent, and a
woven rope panel detail. It is very cute! Each under $30 – how can
you go wrong??!!
And here are a few tips to "rework" your wardrobe! A popular theme
right now! Again, similar to last week's searching for all those
fabulous Valentino ensembles that you have hidden in the back corners
of your closet!!! Take your Black Blazer and wear it over
EVERYTHING!! Make sure it is hip length, so it can go over
everything!! One suggestion is to put it over your evening frock (not
so sure on that one-would really depend on the frock!). But, it looks
very nice belted over a skirt and top, or pants and top. Also try
pushing up your sleeves to make it look "fresh!" And if you don't
have the fabulous blazer or your blazer isn't so fabulous-Head over to
Club Monaco!! Their "Manhattan Tex" wool blazer is very nice and will
do the trick! It might even be on sale!!! Also, check out Zara-they
are a great source for something like this!
Next find that Skinny Belt – Kohls and Tarjay have a nice selection!
See if you can find one in faux leather python! You can wear it with
a shift, over a cardigan (make sure it isn't too think-don't want that
"sausage look"), or with your jacket from above!! AND wear your
favorite white shirt under these looks! Don't have one-try the
Gap-They have a great one for $39.50!!! You can wear it over a tank
top or untucked under a sweater (makes it easy, since they always
become untucked anyway! Who knew you were already so chic!) Also try
to mix up day and night. If you pair tailored looks with pieces made
from evening fabrics-it looks very NEW! Try that white shirt with a
lace skirt and boots! VOILA-you are good to go!!!
Have a great week and try to stay home and out of the stores!!! HA HA HA!
XO,
P
Monday, December 15, 2008
Shopping for those Less Fortunate…
It always happens this time of year-signing up for sponsoring families at various nonprofits always seems like a great idea in OCTOBER…but, then December rolls around and there you are….the items are due on Monday!! Decided to sponsor different things for different families at various groups…again…seemed like a good idea AT THE TIME! Toys for one family, Books for another, Clothes for another and Food for another…Who can say no to an email-just click yes! I think I did less of this when I had to call people or ask at a meeting! It could also be that I feel guilty that I don't have the TIME to give to these organizations like I used to-so just signed on to help! There I was at 8:00 a.m. the other morning, in front of TarJay Desperate to get it-(It should be a commercial – woman pacing with lists in hand….can't wait to get into TarJAY!) I had an hour before I had to get to work-so it was Power Shopping to the Max!!!! Toys, who knew so many different Barbies…..started to ponder each one and OMGosh! All the accessories!! Time was wasting…I felt like I was on one of those TV shows where they give you 15 minutes to get everything you want at Toys R Us or someplace-I think Oprah does this?? I wish it was Neimans!!! Then headed over to the boys aisle! Brought back some memories!!! Everyone in the family needed coats-clothing! Lots of sizes to figure our and one group had very specific needs…OOPPPPSSSS the clothes are sized S M L…what does a three year old wear???? This is not so easy..OOPPSSSS somehow lost one of those lists…GOOD GRIEF…where is it??? Stop..do not pass GO…Lose one turn! Spent a few moments looking for the list, but decided…the family would be happy with anything! Another family needed a microwave…OMG..haven't purchased one of those in years!!! Headed over to Appliances and found one for $100!! Microwaves are still big and heavy! Not so many folks to help you at TarJay like Neimans!!
HMMMMMM….maybe I should get one for myself!! But, NO saving myself for the Shoe Dept.!!!
Headed over to the shoes and VOILA! The Sigerson Morrison Silver pointy toed heels with Jewel detail were ON SALE!! OMG! $31 a pair! Into the cart!! Are there more???? And some very cute booties by Mossimo!!!! Then over to see the IN STORE selection of Anya Hindmarch handbags! Bought all of them!! SO GORGEOUS!! Just a note-several say Anya Hindmarch for TarJay-but, the print is small (and at our age, who can read it without glasses??) and the bag is so cute! GO FOR IT!!! Plus, it has a bit of "being responsible in these difficult economic times" feel about it!! By now, it was 8:52 a.m. Headed to check out!! Even the check out clerk liked my bags!! We had a lovely little chat about them!! Swiped that Visa and out the door in One Hour! Of course, then had to sort out what went where-but, it does make one feel that they are making a difference for some! Wish I could play Barbies with that little girl!!!!
Of course, so glad to help others and realizing that I haven't done anything for those I love!! Thank goodness for FedEx!!!!
Dear friend, Mimi has a request if anyone is a 'member" of Rue La La-an online shopping website that you have be invited to join! LMK and we can all join!!!!!!
Today was the last day of our Winter Sale! So glad to have my weekends back again!! I am so behind on all my SPA appointments! MAINTENANCE is always a No. 1 priority!!!!
Hope you all are enjoying this holiday season! It is so special and goes by so quickly!!!!
I have included some treats for all of you!!!
Enjoy!!
Going to take a few weeks off! Heading to Jeff's Mom for the Christmas Holiday! Will be back writing again in the New Year on January 4th!!!
Merry Merry!
Love, P
Costume Jewels at www.neimanmarcus.com
Click on Costume Jewelry-Stephen Dweck shows some FAB rings! But, lots of bling for not so many $$$$!! We could all be happy!
And Jeff sends this NYTimes link for street fashion!! Love, Love, Love the coats and MUST HAVE those Burberry gloves!!!!!!
And a little something for the gardeners! Love those orchids!! CostCo had tons last weekend!!!!
Expert advice from Chicago growers gets your plant reblooming
By Nina A. Koziol | Special to the Tribune
December 14, 2008
Pondering a few red poinsettias to deck your halls this month? Sure, those big, beefy, look-at-me plants are the holiday workhorses of the horticultural world. But if you're looking for something a little different, even exotic, you might find yourself buying an orchid.
"There's something very mysterious about them," says Jim Sandrik of Park Ridge. "Maybe it's their beauty or maybe it's knowing that they're a challenge."
But if you've chosen an orchid to glam up the living room—or were the lucky recipient of an orchid gift—only to find yourself frustrated when your new plant refused to ever bloom again, take heart: The mystery of orchids, and the skills it takes to keep them blooming, are easy to unlock with a little expert advice.
Sandrik coddles a collection of 100 orchids, some that are nearly 30 years old, in a small spare bedroom equipped with special lights and fans. And, he spends an hour or two each Sunday watering and feeding all of them. But you don't need plant lights or a conservatory or a big block of time to keep an orchid or two healthy and happy enough to bloom more than once.
"The phalaenopsis orchid is one of the easiest to grow," says Adam Hausermann of Orchids by Hausermann, a specialty greenhouse in Villa Park. Also known as the "moth" orchid, phalaenopsis is one of the longest bloomers, sometimes flowering for two months or more. It can bloom two to three times a year under the right conditions.
Potted orchids have become so popular that they can be found in the floral section of local food stores and big-box stores, as well as garden centers and florists. Expect to pay anywhere from $12 to $40 or more depending on the size and variety of plant.
"Orchids are a great hobby," Hausermann says. "It's such a large plant family, there's something for everyone." Their names—cattleya, dendrobium, paphiopedilum, cymbidium—are tongue-twisters, to be sure. The flowers range from dangling spidery little blossoms to long stems of large waxy blooms. And some, like oncidium orchids, have delicate flowers that smell like chocolate or spice. Perhaps the best known are the cattleyas, the large flowers used as corsages, and the dendrobiums, used in the Hawaiian lei.
Here are some tips for helping your orchid through the winter and into another year of bloom:
Light: Different orchids have different cultural requirements, but in general, an east-, south- or west-facing window unobstructed by trees, drapes or curtains, with the pot out of direct sunlight, is a good start.
Watering: The fastest way to kill an orchid is to let it sit in a saucer of water. Better to take the plant to the sink once a week, give it a thorough soak until water runs out the bottom and then place it on the saucer.
Feeding: For one or two plants, Sandrik says, "purchase the smallest size water-soluble orchid fertilizer available and mix 1/4 teaspoon in a gallon of water, making sure it dissolves. Pour half of it into each plant when watering."
Temperature: Orchids tend to like daytime temps that range from about 65 to 75 degrees and evening temperatures from 55 to 65.
Humidity: Orchids prefer humidity in the 40 percent to 60 percent range. A furnace or room humidifier can help as well as placing the pots on saucers that sit over a bed of wet gravel.
Flowering stems: After it has flowered the first time, cut a phalaenopsis stem about half the way down just above a node (looks like a slight bulge). From this node a new flower stem should emerge and flower in about 120 days.
Things that bust their blooms: The air is too hot, especially at night. The soil is too dry or too wet. The plant is getting too much or too little light. Don't repot the plant while it has buds or blooms. Wait until it is done flowering and then repot in about the same size pot using special orchid mix from the garden center.
Yellow leaves: It's natural to have a few yellow older leaves at the base of the plant. If the newer leaves are turning yellow, it may indicate too much or too little water.
And found this FAB Truffle Bars recipe! Made it for the work folks and they were very happy!!!
YUM!!!
Truffle Bar Base
unsalted butter
8 oz (2 sticks)
unsweetened baking chocolate, chopped
7 oz (7 squares)
granulated sugar
2 cups
large eggs
4
all purpose flour, not sifted
1 cup
Vanilla extract
1 teaspoon
walnuts, chopped
1 cup
Preheat the oven to 350_F.
Lightly spray a 9" x 13" cake pan with some pan spray. Set aside.
Place the butter in a heavy saucepan.
Melt the butter over low heat.
Remove the pan from the heat.
Add the unsweetened chocolate to the melted butter, stirring constantly with a wooden or nylon spoon until the chocolate is completely melted. Add the sugar and stir to completely combine.
Add the eggs, one at a time, stirring vigorously after each addition to thoroughly combine the egg into the batter.
Add the flour and stir to combine.
Add the Vanilla extract and walnuts.
Pour batter into prepared pan.
Bake for 20 to 25 minutes only. The brownie may still look soft and shiny. Care must be taken not to over bake the base or it will end up being dry and crumbly.
Remove from the oven and place on a cooling rack.
Cool completely.
Truffle Topping
Dark Chocolate Bars (2 oz each)
4 each
heavy whipping cream
3/4 cup
light corn syrup
1 Tablespoon
unsalted butter, softened
1 Tablespoon
Chop the chocolate and place in a stainless steel or glass bowl.
Place one inch of water in a small heavy saucepan.
Place the saucepan on the stove and bring the water to a simmer.
Remove the saucepan from the stove.
Place the bowl containing the chopped chocolate on top of the pan of simmering water.
Stir the chocolate until it is completely melted.
Remove the bowl from the top of the pan and dump the water out.
Place the cream and light corn syrup into the sauce pan and bring to a boil.
Pour the hot liquid over the melted chocolate.
Whisk the hot liquid and the chocolate together to completely combine.
Set the chocolate mixture aside and allow the Ganache to cool for five minutes.
Whisk the softened butter into the chocolate mixture.
Allow the Ganache to cool to room temperature. The mixture will be a thick, custard-like consistency.
Whisk the Ganache just until it begins to lighten in color slightly.
Spread the whipped Ganache evenly over the brownie base.
If desired, cover the top of the bars with shaved dark chocolate.
Allow the bars to sit at room temperature until the Ganache firms up.
Dust lightly with cocoa powder.
Cut into 1 1/2 inch squares.
Store the finished bars in an airtight container to prevent from drying out.
These have a better eating quality if eaten at room temperature.
Yield: approximately 6 dozen squares
ENJOY!
And last but not least!
This is simply DIVINE!!
French Pear Martini
Mix together:
1.5 oz dry white wine
1.5 oz Grey Goose La Poire (YUM!)
Top with Champagne
Sugar to rim glass!
Cheers!!
HMMMMMM….maybe I should get one for myself!! But, NO saving myself for the Shoe Dept.!!!
Headed over to the shoes and VOILA! The Sigerson Morrison Silver pointy toed heels with Jewel detail were ON SALE!! OMG! $31 a pair! Into the cart!! Are there more???? And some very cute booties by Mossimo!!!! Then over to see the IN STORE selection of Anya Hindmarch handbags! Bought all of them!! SO GORGEOUS!! Just a note-several say Anya Hindmarch for TarJay-but, the print is small (and at our age, who can read it without glasses??) and the bag is so cute! GO FOR IT!!! Plus, it has a bit of "being responsible in these difficult economic times" feel about it!! By now, it was 8:52 a.m. Headed to check out!! Even the check out clerk liked my bags!! We had a lovely little chat about them!! Swiped that Visa and out the door in One Hour! Of course, then had to sort out what went where-but, it does make one feel that they are making a difference for some! Wish I could play Barbies with that little girl!!!!
Of course, so glad to help others and realizing that I haven't done anything for those I love!! Thank goodness for FedEx!!!!
Dear friend, Mimi has a request if anyone is a 'member" of Rue La La-an online shopping website that you have be invited to join! LMK and we can all join!!!!!!
Today was the last day of our Winter Sale! So glad to have my weekends back again!! I am so behind on all my SPA appointments! MAINTENANCE is always a No. 1 priority!!!!
Hope you all are enjoying this holiday season! It is so special and goes by so quickly!!!!
I have included some treats for all of you!!!
Enjoy!!
Going to take a few weeks off! Heading to Jeff's Mom for the Christmas Holiday! Will be back writing again in the New Year on January 4th!!!
Merry Merry!
Love, P
Costume Jewels at www.neimanmarcus.com
Click on Costume Jewelry-Stephen Dweck shows some FAB rings! But, lots of bling for not so many $$$$!! We could all be happy!
And Jeff sends this NYTimes link for street fashion!! Love, Love, Love the coats and MUST HAVE those Burberry gloves!!!!!!
And a little something for the gardeners! Love those orchids!! CostCo had tons last weekend!!!!
Expert advice from Chicago growers gets your plant reblooming
By Nina A. Koziol | Special to the Tribune
December 14, 2008
Pondering a few red poinsettias to deck your halls this month? Sure, those big, beefy, look-at-me plants are the holiday workhorses of the horticultural world. But if you're looking for something a little different, even exotic, you might find yourself buying an orchid.
"There's something very mysterious about them," says Jim Sandrik of Park Ridge. "Maybe it's their beauty or maybe it's knowing that they're a challenge."
But if you've chosen an orchid to glam up the living room—or were the lucky recipient of an orchid gift—only to find yourself frustrated when your new plant refused to ever bloom again, take heart: The mystery of orchids, and the skills it takes to keep them blooming, are easy to unlock with a little expert advice.
Sandrik coddles a collection of 100 orchids, some that are nearly 30 years old, in a small spare bedroom equipped with special lights and fans. And, he spends an hour or two each Sunday watering and feeding all of them. But you don't need plant lights or a conservatory or a big block of time to keep an orchid or two healthy and happy enough to bloom more than once.
"The phalaenopsis orchid is one of the easiest to grow," says Adam Hausermann of Orchids by Hausermann, a specialty greenhouse in Villa Park. Also known as the "moth" orchid, phalaenopsis is one of the longest bloomers, sometimes flowering for two months or more. It can bloom two to three times a year under the right conditions.
Potted orchids have become so popular that they can be found in the floral section of local food stores and big-box stores, as well as garden centers and florists. Expect to pay anywhere from $12 to $40 or more depending on the size and variety of plant.
"Orchids are a great hobby," Hausermann says. "It's such a large plant family, there's something for everyone." Their names—cattleya, dendrobium, paphiopedilum, cymbidium—are tongue-twisters, to be sure. The flowers range from dangling spidery little blossoms to long stems of large waxy blooms. And some, like oncidium orchids, have delicate flowers that smell like chocolate or spice. Perhaps the best known are the cattleyas, the large flowers used as corsages, and the dendrobiums, used in the Hawaiian lei.
Here are some tips for helping your orchid through the winter and into another year of bloom:
Light: Different orchids have different cultural requirements, but in general, an east-, south- or west-facing window unobstructed by trees, drapes or curtains, with the pot out of direct sunlight, is a good start.
Watering: The fastest way to kill an orchid is to let it sit in a saucer of water. Better to take the plant to the sink once a week, give it a thorough soak until water runs out the bottom and then place it on the saucer.
Feeding: For one or two plants, Sandrik says, "purchase the smallest size water-soluble orchid fertilizer available and mix 1/4 teaspoon in a gallon of water, making sure it dissolves. Pour half of it into each plant when watering."
Temperature: Orchids tend to like daytime temps that range from about 65 to 75 degrees and evening temperatures from 55 to 65.
Humidity: Orchids prefer humidity in the 40 percent to 60 percent range. A furnace or room humidifier can help as well as placing the pots on saucers that sit over a bed of wet gravel.
Flowering stems: After it has flowered the first time, cut a phalaenopsis stem about half the way down just above a node (looks like a slight bulge). From this node a new flower stem should emerge and flower in about 120 days.
Things that bust their blooms: The air is too hot, especially at night. The soil is too dry or too wet. The plant is getting too much or too little light. Don't repot the plant while it has buds or blooms. Wait until it is done flowering and then repot in about the same size pot using special orchid mix from the garden center.
Yellow leaves: It's natural to have a few yellow older leaves at the base of the plant. If the newer leaves are turning yellow, it may indicate too much or too little water.
And found this FAB Truffle Bars recipe! Made it for the work folks and they were very happy!!!
YUM!!!
Truffle Bar Base
unsalted butter
8 oz (2 sticks)
unsweetened baking chocolate, chopped
7 oz (7 squares)
granulated sugar
2 cups
large eggs
4
all purpose flour, not sifted
1 cup
Vanilla extract
1 teaspoon
walnuts, chopped
1 cup
Preheat the oven to 350_F.
Lightly spray a 9" x 13" cake pan with some pan spray. Set aside.
Place the butter in a heavy saucepan.
Melt the butter over low heat.
Remove the pan from the heat.
Add the unsweetened chocolate to the melted butter, stirring constantly with a wooden or nylon spoon until the chocolate is completely melted. Add the sugar and stir to completely combine.
Add the eggs, one at a time, stirring vigorously after each addition to thoroughly combine the egg into the batter.
Add the flour and stir to combine.
Add the Vanilla extract and walnuts.
Pour batter into prepared pan.
Bake for 20 to 25 minutes only. The brownie may still look soft and shiny. Care must be taken not to over bake the base or it will end up being dry and crumbly.
Remove from the oven and place on a cooling rack.
Cool completely.
Truffle Topping
Dark Chocolate Bars (2 oz each)
4 each
heavy whipping cream
3/4 cup
light corn syrup
1 Tablespoon
unsalted butter, softened
1 Tablespoon
Chop the chocolate and place in a stainless steel or glass bowl.
Place one inch of water in a small heavy saucepan.
Place the saucepan on the stove and bring the water to a simmer.
Remove the saucepan from the stove.
Place the bowl containing the chopped chocolate on top of the pan of simmering water.
Stir the chocolate until it is completely melted.
Remove the bowl from the top of the pan and dump the water out.
Place the cream and light corn syrup into the sauce pan and bring to a boil.
Pour the hot liquid over the melted chocolate.
Whisk the hot liquid and the chocolate together to completely combine.
Set the chocolate mixture aside and allow the Ganache to cool for five minutes.
Whisk the softened butter into the chocolate mixture.
Allow the Ganache to cool to room temperature. The mixture will be a thick, custard-like consistency.
Whisk the Ganache just until it begins to lighten in color slightly.
Spread the whipped Ganache evenly over the brownie base.
If desired, cover the top of the bars with shaved dark chocolate.
Allow the bars to sit at room temperature until the Ganache firms up.
Dust lightly with cocoa powder.
Cut into 1 1/2 inch squares.
Store the finished bars in an airtight container to prevent from drying out.
These have a better eating quality if eaten at room temperature.
Yield: approximately 6 dozen squares
ENJOY!
And last but not least!
This is simply DIVINE!!
French Pear Martini
Mix together:
1.5 oz dry white wine
1.5 oz Grey Goose La Poire (YUM!)
Top with Champagne
Sugar to rim glass!
Cheers!!
Monday, December 1, 2008
Fallen Off the BEAUTY Wagon!
How did this happen??? I was doing so well…taking MY OWN ADVICE and trying all these beauty products…I am on a First Name basis with the CVS and Walgreen beauty counter specialists (that's what their name card said!). Also using Arbonne products, which are FAB! And everything I used was working wonders…But, alas….all the creams in the world can only DO SO MUCH! Age does take its toll! Going nonstop for several weeks on end…can even do MOI in! Running from work to try to manage all the impending volunteer commitments leaves one little time for rest! Setting up for the Thrift House holiday opening last Sunday, following the Art Center's Holiday opening last Friday, caused concern from a fellow Thrift House volunteer. She turned to MOI as we were fighting over a Prada dress (we both wear the same size) and said that she had NEVER seen MOI looking so fatigued, including BAGS under my eyes (of course, they are ALWAYS there, I do an AMAZING job of concealing them!!). MON DIEU! What is a woman to do??! HEAD RIGHT OUT AND BUY MORE PRODUCT!!!! I did try to get more sleep on one day last week! But, preparing for the Thanksgiving feast always calls for a LATE NIGHT on Wednesday or is that an early a.m. on Thanksgiving??!! So looking forward to relaxing over the weekend….only to discover that I had to work all weekend!!
Not PLANNING to work all weekend-if I had KNOWN that I had to work all weekend, I would have SAID SOMETHING! But then that's the CODE! We all know the CODE..that is Don't tell your Mother or Don't tell your Father or in this case, Don't tell PAULA! With a successful opening of our Winter Arts and Crafts Expo, I had said that I would work the Friday after Thanksgiving, since the Art Center is normally closed! ANYTHING for a sale!! That retail spirit returns!! The Art Center was only closed for Thanksgiving and the Friday, so I ASSUMED that I would really only have to work on Friday, since the weekend staff would take over on Saturday and Sunday! Just one little problemo….the regular weekend staff receptionist was off for the holiday and the NEW receptionist would be there for the entire weekend…FUNNY, how that LKF (little known fact), somehow didn't get mentioned to MOI-Another CODE!!
Things were going well on Friday, I arrived opened up, the NEW receptionist arrived to work the register, which is a computerized affair. The only thing I hadn't counted on was that the NEW Receptionist thought she was there to help MOI as back-up! MON DIEU! We both had a "moment" when we realized that each of us thought we were doing the other's job!!! She said that she would need me there as back-up for the ENTIRE weekend!! Now granted, we were only open 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. on Friday and Saturday and noon-4 p.m on Sunday…but still….when is one to prepare for the Holidays??!! Those outdoor containers take time to make!! Not to mention everything else! But hey, that's what the paycheck is for!! I mentally went down the list of everything I could push off to next week, and we were good to go!! We actually were busy, so it worked out well that I was there! Since I was check out back up, I was chief wrapper! It made me a bit nervous wrapping all these lovely glass and ceramic pieces….but, I did my best and focused on the task at hand! A few errors with the Credit Card machine were solved by MOI! Those years of Retail come in handy!!! I decided to add a "festive" air to the event and donned several different Christmas Tree Skirts over the weekend! They were made of fleece and not only festive, but warm!!!! They are actually quite versatile…first as a shawl and later in the day as an actual skirt! Who knows, it may be the next big hit on the runways!! If the "poodle skirt" ever comes back!! I will be prepared!
Having so many hours to spend and not able to actually go to my office to do work, I decided to SHOP the Expo. There are some very chic fiber accessories! This woman is not only an artist, but a fashionista!! I LOVE THIS! She has made this scarf like thing out of very cool yarns and it looks like a necklace…I know I am not describing it very well, but when you put it on-it looks very FAB! She also makes a scarf for your winter coat which is like a "Dickie." Again, very cool! It just fits around your neck and doesn't add any bulk…what's not to like!! Some terrific jewelry too! Love the bracelets and rings!! Not too many cuff's-maybe they are hard to make?? Fabulous antique beaded necklaces and a selection of Ikebana containers…I am good to go! AND to top it all off, very fun notecards!! Truly, I can save the time that I would spend at the shopping malls buying presents and buy everything at the Art Center! But, here's the thing….most of the folks that I buy presents for-LOVE to get those gift cards and I can get those at the grocery store!!! Soooooo, I guess I am shopping for MOI!
Dear Friend, Roxanne Boerke shares these wonderful tips!
She is taking Flower Arranging classes at New Trier extension from Michael (Chicago School of Flower Design). These classes include Hand Tied Bouquets! Who knew-right here in our own back yard!! They look wonderful!!! http://www.newtrier.k12.il.us
Floral design is under arts and crafts in the catalog!
And here is Roxanne's info on Discounts while shopping on line!!
You asked how to get a discount while shopping on line. google search ie, "macys.com coupons". (website address -space- coupons) i am amazed at the discounts i can find. they are not always available and it may take some searching through what google lists or trying the coupon on the check out page (usually a box titled promotion code or coupon). it is so satisfying when they work! i found myself doing a lot of this when i had 2 babies at home. also, be sure to check out your favorite sites on cyber monday, there should be plenty of discounts out there.
there are also coupon websites where you can enter your store and a coupon may pop up. some of those are: Savings.com, Shoppersresource.com, Couponwinner.com, Promotionalcode.com, and Webcouponcodes.com.
Thank you Roxanne!! This is information we can all use!!!!
You can also join online Sample Sale sites:
www.Gilt.com
www.Hautelook.com
www.Ideeli.com
and www.shopstyle.com lets you do a really refined search and has a ton of great stores in it's network!
And for all your HOLIDAY Glamour! Buy a clutch! So many to choose from and at so many price points!!! Anyone will do! Check out Forever 21!!!! www.sondraroberts.com has great clutches too!
Check out Simply Vera at Kohl's-she does a nice job with satin items and a Faux Fur silver cropped coat is FAB!!!!
As we all know-keep the bling to a one focal point-bracelets, necklace or fab earrings…but, don't wear them all together! This website has some great bracelets and earrings!!! And love the price point!!
http://www.richrocksnyc.com/index.html
Will try to find the perfect holiday cookie recipe for next week or send MOI your favorite!!
Let the Holiday's begin!!
XO,
P
Not PLANNING to work all weekend-if I had KNOWN that I had to work all weekend, I would have SAID SOMETHING! But then that's the CODE! We all know the CODE..that is Don't tell your Mother or Don't tell your Father or in this case, Don't tell PAULA! With a successful opening of our Winter Arts and Crafts Expo, I had said that I would work the Friday after Thanksgiving, since the Art Center is normally closed! ANYTHING for a sale!! That retail spirit returns!! The Art Center was only closed for Thanksgiving and the Friday, so I ASSUMED that I would really only have to work on Friday, since the weekend staff would take over on Saturday and Sunday! Just one little problemo….the regular weekend staff receptionist was off for the holiday and the NEW receptionist would be there for the entire weekend…FUNNY, how that LKF (little known fact), somehow didn't get mentioned to MOI-Another CODE!!
Things were going well on Friday, I arrived opened up, the NEW receptionist arrived to work the register, which is a computerized affair. The only thing I hadn't counted on was that the NEW Receptionist thought she was there to help MOI as back-up! MON DIEU! We both had a "moment" when we realized that each of us thought we were doing the other's job!!! She said that she would need me there as back-up for the ENTIRE weekend!! Now granted, we were only open 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. on Friday and Saturday and noon-4 p.m on Sunday…but still….when is one to prepare for the Holidays??!! Those outdoor containers take time to make!! Not to mention everything else! But hey, that's what the paycheck is for!! I mentally went down the list of everything I could push off to next week, and we were good to go!! We actually were busy, so it worked out well that I was there! Since I was check out back up, I was chief wrapper! It made me a bit nervous wrapping all these lovely glass and ceramic pieces….but, I did my best and focused on the task at hand! A few errors with the Credit Card machine were solved by MOI! Those years of Retail come in handy!!! I decided to add a "festive" air to the event and donned several different Christmas Tree Skirts over the weekend! They were made of fleece and not only festive, but warm!!!! They are actually quite versatile…first as a shawl and later in the day as an actual skirt! Who knows, it may be the next big hit on the runways!! If the "poodle skirt" ever comes back!! I will be prepared!
Having so many hours to spend and not able to actually go to my office to do work, I decided to SHOP the Expo. There are some very chic fiber accessories! This woman is not only an artist, but a fashionista!! I LOVE THIS! She has made this scarf like thing out of very cool yarns and it looks like a necklace…I know I am not describing it very well, but when you put it on-it looks very FAB! She also makes a scarf for your winter coat which is like a "Dickie." Again, very cool! It just fits around your neck and doesn't add any bulk…what's not to like!! Some terrific jewelry too! Love the bracelets and rings!! Not too many cuff's-maybe they are hard to make?? Fabulous antique beaded necklaces and a selection of Ikebana containers…I am good to go! AND to top it all off, very fun notecards!! Truly, I can save the time that I would spend at the shopping malls buying presents and buy everything at the Art Center! But, here's the thing….most of the folks that I buy presents for-LOVE to get those gift cards and I can get those at the grocery store!!! Soooooo, I guess I am shopping for MOI!
Dear Friend, Roxanne Boerke shares these wonderful tips!
She is taking Flower Arranging classes at New Trier extension from Michael (Chicago School of Flower Design). These classes include Hand Tied Bouquets! Who knew-right here in our own back yard!! They look wonderful!!! http://www.newtrier.k12.il.us
Floral design is under arts and crafts in the catalog!
And here is Roxanne's info on Discounts while shopping on line!!
You asked how to get a discount while shopping on line. google search ie, "macys.com coupons". (website address -space- coupons) i am amazed at the discounts i can find. they are not always available and it may take some searching through what google lists or trying the coupon on the check out page (usually a box titled promotion code or coupon). it is so satisfying when they work! i found myself doing a lot of this when i had 2 babies at home. also, be sure to check out your favorite sites on cyber monday, there should be plenty of discounts out there.
there are also coupon websites where you can enter your store and a coupon may pop up. some of those are: Savings.com, Shoppersresource.com, Couponwinner.com, Promotionalcode.com, and Webcouponcodes.com.
Thank you Roxanne!! This is information we can all use!!!!
You can also join online Sample Sale sites:
www.Gilt.com
www.Hautelook.com
www.Ideeli.com
and www.shopstyle.com lets you do a really refined search and has a ton of great stores in it's network!
And for all your HOLIDAY Glamour! Buy a clutch! So many to choose from and at so many price points!!! Anyone will do! Check out Forever 21!!!! www.sondraroberts.com has great clutches too!
Check out Simply Vera at Kohl's-she does a nice job with satin items and a Faux Fur silver cropped coat is FAB!!!!
As we all know-keep the bling to a one focal point-bracelets, necklace or fab earrings…but, don't wear them all together! This website has some great bracelets and earrings!!! And love the price point!!
http://www.richrocksnyc.com/index.html
Will try to find the perfect holiday cookie recipe for next week or send MOI your favorite!!
Let the Holiday's begin!!
XO,
P
Monday, November 17, 2008
Hand Tied Bouquets!
What a week, not one, but TWO floral arranging seminars featuring Hand Tied Bouquets!! And then on the news, a segment on the School of Floral Design….Does it truly get any better than this??!! Paula Pryke of London Fame, breezed into town to give an unbelievable 2+ hour demonstration on all her techniques of flower arranging. She started with variations on Hand Tied Bouquets making it look easier than making lanyards!!! I know that when I was a camp counselor, I did know how to make a lanyard, but I do believe I struggled with that. AND here was Paula, just throwing these incredible bouquets together that were GINORMOUS…I was sitting in the back, so I couldn't see the size of her hand, but they looked fairly normal sized..so I was in total awe and amazement as she whipped these flowers into visions of loveliness and all in the palm of her hand. She said that it was easy to do with a bit of practice. However, MOI knows better!! Ikebana looks easy too…..but, you just try finding the right branch!
So, it was with continued amazement that I attended my Ikebana International meeting today to view yet another demonstration of Hand Tied Bouquets. Our guest demonstrator was a faculty member from the American School of Flower Arranging (yes, we are stealing from the Brits!). He made a large array of Hand Tie Bouquet arrangements and each one was a bit different. He made small ones and attached them to a wreath. He made large ones in clear vases that he covered with this wire mesh wrapping material that you can get a Michaels…He used colored wire to create a kenzan in a clear vase and then put the Hand Tied Bouquet in that. Tied it up with a wire bow from CostCo! He also used these little cubes that you soak in water and then put them in a clear vase. You add cranberries and they sort of float in the clear cubes (think gelatin) and then here is the best thing…you can buy these little votive lights called, eco-lights, that can be turned on and SUBMERGED in the jello-cranberry mixture. I mean TRULY…does it get any better than this??!! Paula also had some tricks up her sleeve using CROTON leaves on outside of a clear vase and tied it with wire. She said they would last up to 4 days. CROTON leaves have great color, so you can use them for many occasions! You can fill the vases with a variety of flowers-very FESTIVE!!!
It was such good fortune to see two excellent demonstrations in less than four days knowing that I will probably never be able to master this type of flower arranging!!! I did speak to the fellow from the American School of Flower Arranging and asked if I could just take a class in Hand Tied Bouquets and he said YES! So stay tuned Chi-town readers and I will let you know when the next class is being held!! Well worth it!!!!!
Of course, attending the Ikebana meeting always brings with it memories of living in Japan and trying to keep a part of that experience alive in my current life! NOT SO SIMPLE!! The meeting was in a suburb, an hour from home, so that means two hours of driving time. Of course, I truly couldn't believe that it was really an hour away, so I left late, but arrived just in time for LUNCH! I had to take the last open seat, which meant that I didn't get to sit by dear friend, Janet Knowlton, who is living in the Chicago area. We were friends in Tokyo and also at Ikebana International. She went on to live all over the world, but has now landed in Chi-Town. (I am sure the highlight of all her destinations!!) It is fun to see her after 15 years! The demonstration and meeting lasted 4 hours, so Janet and I waved to each other. You know, this WAS my life in Tokyo, when you felt like you had accomplished something if you did ONE thing a day…But, this is my current life and I need to do 15 things a day… the people in the group are lovely…but, Janet and I both looked at each other and said..THIS IS SO NOT FITTING WITH OUR LIVES!!!!
It is the love of Ikebana that brings people together, but trying to make it a part of your life is something else!
And doesn't that seem the mantra lately…THIS IS SO NOT FITTING WITH OUR LIVES!! It usually appears during the beginning of the holiday season! You have all these things that you need to do and hope that people will help you and they are in the same boat and decide to bail on you!! The funny thing is that, what you had signed up to do is still there!! YIKES!! I can usually handle my own volunteer commitments, but this season, it seems more than ever, the need is greater. Perhaps it is the economy, maybe it is an excuse for some. I am not sure, but I must be on the speed dial of those groups that need help, since the phone keeps ringing!!! But, that is what all-nighters are for!!! I love it when the young people come to work looking like they pulled an all-nighter…and guess what they did!! I tell them that I can RELATE!!!!
Attended a Fashion seminar on "Your Image in times of FLUX!" It wasn't for the Fashion Forward, but still some great ideas to share:
1. Hone your people skills, conversational arts and emotional intelligence. What is that?? This was a term I wasn't that familiar with, but in times of FLUX it is important to know what to think! Here's a definition from Wikipedia and if this isn't clear, click on the link for an entire discourse and see if it is any clearer!!!!
Emotional Intelligence (EI), often measured as an Emotional Intelligence Quotient (EQ), describes an ability, capacity, skill or (in the case of the trait EI model) a self-perceived ability, to identify, assess, and manage the emotions of one's self, of others, and of groups. It is a relatively new area of psychological research. The definition of EI is constantly changing.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_intelligence
Shop SALES!! (Tell us something WE don't know!)
Use coupon websites: www.ebates.com, www.wow-coupons.com (you can let MOI know about these)
Expand your global network, internally and externally-Facebook here we come!
Add Accessories!
And advice for the Fashion Forward! Buy a Capelet!
They are everywhere in all price points (try to buy one on SALE)! They are cable knit and faux-fur trimmed (what I bought-bien sur!). It looks best with a pencil skirt or jeans. And be sure to wear Pointy-toed shoes!!!!!
In case you missed last week's lipstick fest in the NYTimes-here you go!!
By ELLEN TIEN
Published: November 7, 2008
As the economy crumbles, the Lipstick Index — that frivolous financial barometer that says cosmetics sales rise in direct relation to free-falling finances — has jumped. Sales in the last few months are up 40 percent. Here are 41 of fall's most popular pick-me-ups, from $1.99 to over $50. What do women want when they aren't allowed to want too much? Traditional lipsticks in more-sheer neutral shades; the bright reds of days gone by have been replaced by pinky browns and rosy taupes.
Top row, from left to right:
1. Benefit Full-Finish lipstick in Ladies' Choice, $18 at benefitcosmetics.com.
2. Sisley Hydrating long-lasting lipstick No. L17, $55 at Neiman Marcus stores.
3. Vincent Longo Lipstain SPF lipstick in Americana, $23 at vincentlongo.com.
4. Pur Minerals lipstick in Raspberry Quartz, $15 at Ulta stores.
5. Shiseido Perfecting lipstick in P13, $22.50 at sephora.com.
6. Mark Dew Drenched Moisturlicious lip color in Pretty Posey, $6 at meetmark.com.
7. Jane Iredale PureMoist LipColour in Melisa, $19 at Vert in Los Angeles, (310) 581-6126.
8. Josie Maran lipstick in Rumi Joon, $20 at barneys.com.
9. MAC lipstick in Viva Glam VI, $14 at maccosmetics.com.
10. Clinique Long Last Soft Shine lipstick in Bamboo Pink, $14 at clinique .com.
11. Avon Beyond Color Plumping lip color in Divine Wine, $8 at avon .com.
12. Dior Addict High Shine lipstick in Casual Beige, $25 at Bloomingdale's stores.
13. Mally Beauty lipstick in Zooey Doll, $15 at henribendel.com.
14. Origins Smileage Plus Organic Liptint in Vintage, $11 at origins.com.
15. Nars lipstick in Dolce Vita, $24 at narscosmetics.com.
16. Sally Hansen Natural Beauty in Plum Shimmer, $9.99 at Duane Reade stores.
17. Shu Uemura Rouge Unlimited Crème Matte lipstick in Red 165M, $23 at shuuemura-usa.com.
18. DuWop Prime Venom nude lip plumping balm and primer, $20 at Sephora.
19. Michael Marcus lipstick in Jenifer, $24 at michaelmarcus.com.
20. N.Y.C. New York Color Ultra Last LipWear in Brandy Sparkle, $1.99 at Wal-Mart stores.
21. Sue Devitt lipstick in Zimbabwe, $20 at Barneys New York.
Bottom row, from left to right:
22. Bobbi Brown lip color in Brown, $22 at bobbibrowncosmetics.com.
23. By Terry Rouge Delectation lipstick in Icy Praline, $41 at Barneys New York stores.
24. Jouer Lip Color in Phoebe, $22 at Henri Bendel in New York, (800) 423-6335.
25. Rimmel Lasting Finish lipstick in Coffee Shimmer, $4.95 at CVS stores.
26. Ramy lipstick in Ramy Red, $17 at ramybeautytherapy.com.
27. Estée Lauder Signature Hudra Lustre lip at bobbibrowncosmetics.com.
28. Chanel Rouge Hydrabase in Enigma $27 at chanel.com.
29. Chanel Rouge Allure in Naïve, $30 at chanel.com.
30. Calvin Klein Delicious Luxury Crème lipstick in Oasis, $18 at sephora.com.
31. Trish McEvoy sheer lipstick in Innocent Sheer, $22 at Saks Fifth Avenue stores.
32. YSL Beauté Rouge Volupté lipstick in Sweet Honey, $29 at Henri Bendel in New York, (800) 423-6335.
33. Smashbox Photo Finish lipstick in Delightful, $22 at Sephora stores.
34. Rilastil Long Lasting Color Fix in Tender Rose, $28 at C. O. Bigelow in New York, (212) 533-2700.
35. Laura Mercier lip color in Pink Champagne, $22 at lauramercier.com.
36. Paul & Joe Lipstick N in No. 17, $20 at thebeautycloset.com.
37. TheBalm Read My Lips lipstick in Letter to the Editor, $16 at C. O. Bigelow in New York (212) 533-2700.
38. Lipstick Queen by Poppy King sheer lip color in Medieval, $20 at Barneys New York stores.
39. Kat Von D Painted Love lipstick in Lolita, $18 at sephora.com.
40. Korres Mango Butter SPF 10 in Nude 33, $18 at sephora.com.
41. BeingTRUE translucent lip color in Protagonist, $22 at truelynatural.com.
Have a great week!!
Love, P
And here are some holiday recipes from friend, Louise Davis!
Go to this website!
YUM!!
http://www.northpole.com/Kitchen/Cookbook/rec0741.html
So, it was with continued amazement that I attended my Ikebana International meeting today to view yet another demonstration of Hand Tied Bouquets. Our guest demonstrator was a faculty member from the American School of Flower Arranging (yes, we are stealing from the Brits!). He made a large array of Hand Tie Bouquet arrangements and each one was a bit different. He made small ones and attached them to a wreath. He made large ones in clear vases that he covered with this wire mesh wrapping material that you can get a Michaels…He used colored wire to create a kenzan in a clear vase and then put the Hand Tied Bouquet in that. Tied it up with a wire bow from CostCo! He also used these little cubes that you soak in water and then put them in a clear vase. You add cranberries and they sort of float in the clear cubes (think gelatin) and then here is the best thing…you can buy these little votive lights called, eco-lights, that can be turned on and SUBMERGED in the jello-cranberry mixture. I mean TRULY…does it get any better than this??!! Paula also had some tricks up her sleeve using CROTON leaves on outside of a clear vase and tied it with wire. She said they would last up to 4 days. CROTON leaves have great color, so you can use them for many occasions! You can fill the vases with a variety of flowers-very FESTIVE!!!
It was such good fortune to see two excellent demonstrations in less than four days knowing that I will probably never be able to master this type of flower arranging!!! I did speak to the fellow from the American School of Flower Arranging and asked if I could just take a class in Hand Tied Bouquets and he said YES! So stay tuned Chi-town readers and I will let you know when the next class is being held!! Well worth it!!!!!
Of course, attending the Ikebana meeting always brings with it memories of living in Japan and trying to keep a part of that experience alive in my current life! NOT SO SIMPLE!! The meeting was in a suburb, an hour from home, so that means two hours of driving time. Of course, I truly couldn't believe that it was really an hour away, so I left late, but arrived just in time for LUNCH! I had to take the last open seat, which meant that I didn't get to sit by dear friend, Janet Knowlton, who is living in the Chicago area. We were friends in Tokyo and also at Ikebana International. She went on to live all over the world, but has now landed in Chi-Town. (I am sure the highlight of all her destinations!!) It is fun to see her after 15 years! The demonstration and meeting lasted 4 hours, so Janet and I waved to each other. You know, this WAS my life in Tokyo, when you felt like you had accomplished something if you did ONE thing a day…But, this is my current life and I need to do 15 things a day… the people in the group are lovely…but, Janet and I both looked at each other and said..THIS IS SO NOT FITTING WITH OUR LIVES!!!!
It is the love of Ikebana that brings people together, but trying to make it a part of your life is something else!
And doesn't that seem the mantra lately…THIS IS SO NOT FITTING WITH OUR LIVES!! It usually appears during the beginning of the holiday season! You have all these things that you need to do and hope that people will help you and they are in the same boat and decide to bail on you!! The funny thing is that, what you had signed up to do is still there!! YIKES!! I can usually handle my own volunteer commitments, but this season, it seems more than ever, the need is greater. Perhaps it is the economy, maybe it is an excuse for some. I am not sure, but I must be on the speed dial of those groups that need help, since the phone keeps ringing!!! But, that is what all-nighters are for!!! I love it when the young people come to work looking like they pulled an all-nighter…and guess what they did!! I tell them that I can RELATE!!!!
Attended a Fashion seminar on "Your Image in times of FLUX!" It wasn't for the Fashion Forward, but still some great ideas to share:
1. Hone your people skills, conversational arts and emotional intelligence. What is that?? This was a term I wasn't that familiar with, but in times of FLUX it is important to know what to think! Here's a definition from Wikipedia and if this isn't clear, click on the link for an entire discourse and see if it is any clearer!!!!
Emotional Intelligence (EI), often measured as an Emotional Intelligence Quotient (EQ), describes an ability, capacity, skill or (in the case of the trait EI model) a self-perceived ability, to identify, assess, and manage the emotions of one's self, of others, and of groups. It is a relatively new area of psychological research. The definition of EI is constantly changing.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_intelligence
Shop SALES!! (Tell us something WE don't know!)
Use coupon websites: www.ebates.com, www.wow-coupons.com (you can let MOI know about these)
Expand your global network, internally and externally-Facebook here we come!
Add Accessories!
And advice for the Fashion Forward! Buy a Capelet!
They are everywhere in all price points (try to buy one on SALE)! They are cable knit and faux-fur trimmed (what I bought-bien sur!). It looks best with a pencil skirt or jeans. And be sure to wear Pointy-toed shoes!!!!!
In case you missed last week's lipstick fest in the NYTimes-here you go!!
By ELLEN TIEN
Published: November 7, 2008
As the economy crumbles, the Lipstick Index — that frivolous financial barometer that says cosmetics sales rise in direct relation to free-falling finances — has jumped. Sales in the last few months are up 40 percent. Here are 41 of fall's most popular pick-me-ups, from $1.99 to over $50. What do women want when they aren't allowed to want too much? Traditional lipsticks in more-sheer neutral shades; the bright reds of days gone by have been replaced by pinky browns and rosy taupes.
Top row, from left to right:
1. Benefit Full-Finish lipstick in Ladies' Choice, $18 at benefitcosmetics.com.
2. Sisley Hydrating long-lasting lipstick No. L17, $55 at Neiman Marcus stores.
3. Vincent Longo Lipstain SPF lipstick in Americana, $23 at vincentlongo.com.
4. Pur Minerals lipstick in Raspberry Quartz, $15 at Ulta stores.
5. Shiseido Perfecting lipstick in P13, $22.50 at sephora.com.
6. Mark Dew Drenched Moisturlicious lip color in Pretty Posey, $6 at meetmark.com.
7. Jane Iredale PureMoist LipColour in Melisa, $19 at Vert in Los Angeles, (310) 581-6126.
8. Josie Maran lipstick in Rumi Joon, $20 at barneys.com.
9. MAC lipstick in Viva Glam VI, $14 at maccosmetics.com.
10. Clinique Long Last Soft Shine lipstick in Bamboo Pink, $14 at clinique .com.
11. Avon Beyond Color Plumping lip color in Divine Wine, $8 at avon .com.
12. Dior Addict High Shine lipstick in Casual Beige, $25 at Bloomingdale's stores.
13. Mally Beauty lipstick in Zooey Doll, $15 at henribendel.com.
14. Origins Smileage Plus Organic Liptint in Vintage, $11 at origins.com.
15. Nars lipstick in Dolce Vita, $24 at narscosmetics.com.
16. Sally Hansen Natural Beauty in Plum Shimmer, $9.99 at Duane Reade stores.
17. Shu Uemura Rouge Unlimited Crème Matte lipstick in Red 165M, $23 at shuuemura-usa.com.
18. DuWop Prime Venom nude lip plumping balm and primer, $20 at Sephora.
19. Michael Marcus lipstick in Jenifer, $24 at michaelmarcus.com.
20. N.Y.C. New York Color Ultra Last LipWear in Brandy Sparkle, $1.99 at Wal-Mart stores.
21. Sue Devitt lipstick in Zimbabwe, $20 at Barneys New York.
Bottom row, from left to right:
22. Bobbi Brown lip color in Brown, $22 at bobbibrowncosmetics.com.
23. By Terry Rouge Delectation lipstick in Icy Praline, $41 at Barneys New York stores.
24. Jouer Lip Color in Phoebe, $22 at Henri Bendel in New York, (800) 423-6335.
25. Rimmel Lasting Finish lipstick in Coffee Shimmer, $4.95 at CVS stores.
26. Ramy lipstick in Ramy Red, $17 at ramybeautytherapy.com.
27. Estée Lauder Signature Hudra Lustre lip at bobbibrowncosmetics.com.
28. Chanel Rouge Hydrabase in Enigma $27 at chanel.com.
29. Chanel Rouge Allure in Naïve, $30 at chanel.com.
30. Calvin Klein Delicious Luxury Crème lipstick in Oasis, $18 at sephora.com.
31. Trish McEvoy sheer lipstick in Innocent Sheer, $22 at Saks Fifth Avenue stores.
32. YSL Beauté Rouge Volupté lipstick in Sweet Honey, $29 at Henri Bendel in New York, (800) 423-6335.
33. Smashbox Photo Finish lipstick in Delightful, $22 at Sephora stores.
34. Rilastil Long Lasting Color Fix in Tender Rose, $28 at C. O. Bigelow in New York, (212) 533-2700.
35. Laura Mercier lip color in Pink Champagne, $22 at lauramercier.com.
36. Paul & Joe Lipstick N in No. 17, $20 at thebeautycloset.com.
37. TheBalm Read My Lips lipstick in Letter to the Editor, $16 at C. O. Bigelow in New York (212) 533-2700.
38. Lipstick Queen by Poppy King sheer lip color in Medieval, $20 at Barneys New York stores.
39. Kat Von D Painted Love lipstick in Lolita, $18 at sephora.com.
40. Korres Mango Butter SPF 10 in Nude 33, $18 at sephora.com.
41. BeingTRUE translucent lip color in Protagonist, $22 at truelynatural.com.
Have a great week!!
Love, P
And here are some holiday recipes from friend, Louise Davis!
Go to this website!
YUM!!
http://www.northpole.com/Kitchen/Cookbook/rec0741.html
Thursday, November 6, 2008
"“Raise Your Hand if….."
There I was at the Association for Fundraising Professionals (AFP) Midwest conference, EAGER to hear this speakers thoughts on starting your own Planned Giving program…almost as exciting as those banking days!! I truly can't get over how so many things are transferable!! The plans, processes, marketing….all similar between profit and nonprofit. I think the only difference is that the nonprofit world doesn't think they are the same!!!! Have to work on that! This very nice fellow was beginning his program with, "Raise your hand if you are the person at your organization that is in charge of the Annual Appeal." All 100 attendees raised their hand. "Keep your hand raised, if you are ALSO in charge of the Planned Giving." 25 hands went down. "Keep you hand raised if you are ALSO in charge of Major Gifts." 25 hands went down. "Keep your hand raised if you are ALSO in charge of Events." Another 25 hands went down. I was looking around the room AMAZED that there were still others in a similar position as MOI!! "Keep your hand raised if you are ALSO in charge of the PR." Down went 15 hands. "Keep your hand raised if you are ALSO in charge of the Marketing." Down went 5 more!
5 of us left with Hands Raised!! The speaker went on to say-Let's give these folks a hand!! One Person Shop!!! I was a bit surprised…I hadn't really thought of my job in these terms. It seems like you just do what you have to do! I could see my fellow conference attendees viewing MOI in a new light, instead of who is that OLDER woman over there…now I was a ONE PERSON SHOP WONDER!!!!
My last session was on how to raise money in difficult financial times!! Hoping to find TRUE insight here! Three speakers from different corporations all seemed quite pleasant and were smiling…so I thought, this has to be good!! They all outlined their giving strategies, none of which would apply to my job…so, I remained hopeful that they would provide ADDITIONAL insight…and then….it appeared on the screen: "Skilled Volunteering!!" Skilled Volunteering…why didn't I think of calling it that!! You are all in DEMAND, since you are skilled volunteers!! In fact, one company offered pro bono assistance with website design (I took note of that!!!), but that really isn't what we need from a corporation…we need the $$$$! Of course, pro bono legal or accounting help is always desired, but that isn't going to help balance my budget, if I don't need those services. They went on to say they were looking for "Team Building" volunteer experiences for their employees, such as painting…Friend, Louise Davis suggested that we could get another dumpster and instead of MOI spending the day going up and down those stairs, it could be a TEAM BUILDING project!! This definitely has possibilities!
And alas, just like Oprah's makeovers…I hate to admit it, but I have not kept up my "organizing system in my office." It isn't horrible, but the piles are back-maybe a function of 6 different things all converging at once….but still, no excuses….I called my organizer helper back on Saturday for a session! He was nice, but firm-he didn't really YELL at MOI, but just said that he couldn't believe that I had fallen back into my old habits (It was a good thing he didn't see the piles of papers on my dining room table!)….Well, what does he expect, MIRACLES?? He is correct, of course…but, I am doing my best!! We managed to get things back in order and better shape. Why does this happen??? I AM open to change…I just have certain habits that are hard to break! Those piles of papers!! He is trying to help MOI get rid of things that I can find on the web. My problem is that if I don't see it, I don't always think of looking it up on the web. Every time I put a piece of paper in the recycling, he would shout HOORAY! It is nice to get that POSITIVE reinforcement! I can see why our kids love it!!! We are working on setting up a Google doc where I can keep my notes, instead of using all those cute note cards that are pink with a "P" on them! BUT, I LOVE THOSE NOTE CARDS!! I told him that I would be a challenge!! At the end, we decided that his Tag Line should be, "He's tough, but gets RESULTS!"
As many of you know, I LOVE anything with made with apples, as in PIE, TARTE TATIN, CRISP, and my all time favorite, Carmel apples, so Delicious!! I am so excited this time of year because Carmel apples abound! So you can ONLY imagine my horror to discover the caloric count of my FAVORITE TREAT!!! I was about to bite into this delicious treat when I saw that the calorie count was only 140 calories per serving per apple. HOW FABULOUS!! And just as I was to take the SECOND bite, I noticed the fine print in the SERVING size…..3 per apple! ARE YOU KIDDING MOI!!!! Three folks sharing ONE APPLE! Oh my goodness!! Here I was ready to chow down on the entire thing, not realizing I had to share it with others if I wanted to stay thin!
It is NEVER easy is it!
Chatting with fellow young people in the office, another FAB shoe site for you all!
www.shoebuy.com
Time to get out the PURPLE!! Jeff is certainly excited about this color!! His beloved Northwestern team may even get invited to a Bowl Game! Let's just hope it is in a geographically desirable destination!!
PURPLE goes well with Black and Grey, so it can go with your wardrobe. One piece will signify to others how truly CHIC you are!
Look for something simple, such as a sweater, maybe a cardigan or turtleneck, handbag, ballet flat, Bootie (INC International Concept: Coral Bootie, $89 at Macy's. A wool scarf could give that black winter coat just the touch it needs!!
Taking next week off from the Newsletter, Heading to Mexico for a holiday! Can't wait to see what Fashion tips I can find there!!!!
A full report in two weeks!!
Lot of love,
P
5 of us left with Hands Raised!! The speaker went on to say-Let's give these folks a hand!! One Person Shop!!! I was a bit surprised…I hadn't really thought of my job in these terms. It seems like you just do what you have to do! I could see my fellow conference attendees viewing MOI in a new light, instead of who is that OLDER woman over there…now I was a ONE PERSON SHOP WONDER!!!!
My last session was on how to raise money in difficult financial times!! Hoping to find TRUE insight here! Three speakers from different corporations all seemed quite pleasant and were smiling…so I thought, this has to be good!! They all outlined their giving strategies, none of which would apply to my job…so, I remained hopeful that they would provide ADDITIONAL insight…and then….it appeared on the screen: "Skilled Volunteering!!" Skilled Volunteering…why didn't I think of calling it that!! You are all in DEMAND, since you are skilled volunteers!! In fact, one company offered pro bono assistance with website design (I took note of that!!!), but that really isn't what we need from a corporation…we need the $$$$! Of course, pro bono legal or accounting help is always desired, but that isn't going to help balance my budget, if I don't need those services. They went on to say they were looking for "Team Building" volunteer experiences for their employees, such as painting…Friend, Louise Davis suggested that we could get another dumpster and instead of MOI spending the day going up and down those stairs, it could be a TEAM BUILDING project!! This definitely has possibilities!
And alas, just like Oprah's makeovers…I hate to admit it, but I have not kept up my "organizing system in my office." It isn't horrible, but the piles are back-maybe a function of 6 different things all converging at once….but still, no excuses….I called my organizer helper back on Saturday for a session! He was nice, but firm-he didn't really YELL at MOI, but just said that he couldn't believe that I had fallen back into my old habits (It was a good thing he didn't see the piles of papers on my dining room table!)….Well, what does he expect, MIRACLES?? He is correct, of course…but, I am doing my best!! We managed to get things back in order and better shape. Why does this happen??? I AM open to change…I just have certain habits that are hard to break! Those piles of papers!! He is trying to help MOI get rid of things that I can find on the web. My problem is that if I don't see it, I don't always think of looking it up on the web. Every time I put a piece of paper in the recycling, he would shout HOORAY! It is nice to get that POSITIVE reinforcement! I can see why our kids love it!!! We are working on setting up a Google doc where I can keep my notes, instead of using all those cute note cards that are pink with a "P" on them! BUT, I LOVE THOSE NOTE CARDS!! I told him that I would be a challenge!! At the end, we decided that his Tag Line should be, "He's tough, but gets RESULTS!"
As many of you know, I LOVE anything with made with apples, as in PIE, TARTE TATIN, CRISP, and my all time favorite, Carmel apples, so Delicious!! I am so excited this time of year because Carmel apples abound! So you can ONLY imagine my horror to discover the caloric count of my FAVORITE TREAT!!! I was about to bite into this delicious treat when I saw that the calorie count was only 140 calories per serving per apple. HOW FABULOUS!! And just as I was to take the SECOND bite, I noticed the fine print in the SERVING size…..3 per apple! ARE YOU KIDDING MOI!!!! Three folks sharing ONE APPLE! Oh my goodness!! Here I was ready to chow down on the entire thing, not realizing I had to share it with others if I wanted to stay thin!
It is NEVER easy is it!
Chatting with fellow young people in the office, another FAB shoe site for you all!
www.shoebuy.com
Time to get out the PURPLE!! Jeff is certainly excited about this color!! His beloved Northwestern team may even get invited to a Bowl Game! Let's just hope it is in a geographically desirable destination!!
PURPLE goes well with Black and Grey, so it can go with your wardrobe. One piece will signify to others how truly CHIC you are!
Look for something simple, such as a sweater, maybe a cardigan or turtleneck, handbag, ballet flat, Bootie (INC International Concept: Coral Bootie, $89 at Macy's. A wool scarf could give that black winter coat just the touch it needs!!
Taking next week off from the Newsletter, Heading to Mexico for a holiday! Can't wait to see what Fashion tips I can find there!!!!
A full report in two weeks!!
Lot of love,
P
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