Showing posts with label fashion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fashion. Show all posts

Monday, February 9, 2009

Warm Weather!

Hi all-
I am SO SO SORRY, but I have to take a pass on writing tonight! The
weather in Chicago is so fabulous! It was 60 degrees
yesterday....but, with that lovely warm weather comes the dreaded
Migraine from a 50 degree change in temperature. My head is not
thinking clearly (at least now I have an excuse!!) and I am headed to
bed! I promise a full report next week!!!! I do want to leave you
with this....Kohl's rolled out it's Dana Buchman line...I was actually
very excited to see what it looked like-having HIGH expectations!
What a disappointment!! It looked like...well....clothes for old
ladies! The shoes were horrible...so dowdy-well, not all...there is a
nice pair of black patent sandals that have straps with a 2 inch
stacked heel. That's it! The jewelry is so-so...you are better off
at TARJAY or with the Simply Vera line!! The clothes...such a
disappointment! It looks like Tory Burch knock off's!! Better off
trying to find Tory Burch on sale. Loehman's has a nice selection of
Tory Burch on sale-so go there!!!!!

If you have to buy shoes...and I know you do...go with the Wedge
heeled sandals. Watch the heels-not the chunky kind. See if you can
find the narrow wedge heel-a much better look!!

More next week I promise!!!!

Lots of love,
P

p.s. Confessions of a Shopaholic opens on the 13th! YEAH!!!

Monday, February 2, 2009

"Welcome Home!"

Why is it that things always seem like a GREAT idea when the call
comes in…then, when the day comes…You are saying, WHAT WAS I
THINKING???" We still have our condo in the city and now it sits
empty due to a change in the condo rules which do not allow for any
rentals. Charlie lived there for a time last year and we have it
functionally furnished (i.e. fine for young men to live in!!). I had
thought of making it adorable and bringing down all those FAB Japanese
antiques that I have in the attic-sort of like Antique Roadshow meets
Chi-Town apartment….but, then I think…do I want the boys using the
apartment with all my lovely things…..HMMMMM…best to keep it
FUNCTIONAL! But, I used to host the Tri-Delt Alumni Loop Group
meetings in the party room when I lived downtown…SO…When the call came
in asking if I would host a meeting, I thought POURQUOI PAS!! The
party room is on the top floor and has a nice view of the city. It is
clean and ready to go!! The meeting starts at 6 p.m. and so I had to
figure out how to pick up the food (keep it warm), and pack up the
beverages and paper goods. I started the a.m. loading up the car with
vino, brought two cases…it's the Tri-Delts after all. Several of my
interns have told MOI that the Tri-Delts were known to be quite the
party gals…so, wanted to make sure I was with the program. The Loop
Group tends to be the very young and well…The OLDER!! Found a
restaurant that was halfway between work and downtown and I could
drive up and pick it up! Did I mention that it was FREEZING out???!!
So after several trips in the a.m. lugging everything, I was packed
and ready to go. Of course, the day got away from MOI and the next
thing I knew…I had to be on the road NOW! Rushed to the restaurant,
picked everything up and they mentioned that they had included sterno
heaters…SO NICE..but, then I realized NO MATCHES to light the
sterno….OH Well! Maybe I can get some at the condo!

Arrived at 5:45 p.m. and jumped out of the car…The Doorman came out to
great MOI and said with a big smile, "Welcome Home!"
WELCOME HOME! I just had to laugh! SO FABULOUS! And then the MOST
AMAZING THING HAPPENED! He proceeded to help me unload the car…I
pulled it into the WARM parking garage and finished unloading. AND
THEN THE NEXT MOST AMAZING THING HAPPENED. Several of the young DDD's
were waiting in the lobby. The Doorman said that he knew they were
my friends, since I always have such "good looking" friends....IS THIS
FELLOW FOR REAL??! What ever we pay him…it should be DOUBLED!
Rushed upstairs with all my "good looking" Delta sisters…and then we
all whipped into action. NO instruction in setting up a party needed
with this crowd. AND here is ANOTHER amazing thing…I didn't know any
of these gals, but it was just like a well rehearsed Opera. They all
started taking things out of boxes, setting tables, opening VINO and
in 10 minutes we were ready to roll! We didn't even have a moment to
introduce each other! It turns out that this was the first meeting
for 6 of the young ladies. Had to make them feel welcome. The
meeting didn't really have a theme, so I thought we could start off
with Champagne and take it from there!! Opened several bottles and
then we moved to red and white varieties. Fairly soon all had
assembled and time for dinner!! The Nice Doorman managed to find
some matches for MOI, so the dinner was warming up! With so many new
attendees, we decided that everyone would tell a story about something
AMAZING that happened to them…or something like that! By now we were
into our second case of wine. Of course, I was the only one
DRIVING-these gals were taking taxis, so no worry about how much VINO
one would be consuming!! Plus, I guess they have to maintain our
current reputation as the Party Gals! It was so interesting to hear
the stories of these young gals! Fortunately, dear friend Linda
O'Bryant was there to balance out the age range! The two of us vs.
the youngsters!! Many of these young gals had been working for a year
or so, several had just been laid off…all seemed optimistic! One gave
a hilarious story about how she was a personal shopper for a Hotel
Client who needed a dress for New Years Eve. Now we are talking!! No
one seemed to have any angst that Men weren't taking them seriously in
the business world. IN FACT, we did talk about working in the old
days and guess what…it revolved around FASHION…The young ones wondered
how we could have worn those horrible TIES!! The Fashionista DDD
also revealed that she writes for the fashion blog, Glossed and
Found-see it at this link-
http://www.beautyoncall.com/gf/index.php
It's a great website and super ideas for fashion and LIFE! Who KNEW??!!

The evening wrapped up at 10:30 p.m. (did I mention this was WEDNESDAY
EVENING) with several of the DDD's going out clubbing! Ah YOUTH!!!
Of course, all helped to clean up (have to love these gals!). We
loaded up several grocery carts and took the elevator to the lobby. I
did notice that we went through 20 bottles of VINO for 26 gals…that
HAS to be a record! I arrived in the lobby and told the Doorman that
I was leaving the carts for a moment, since I wanted to check on the
condo. He smiled and said No PROBLEMO! Back down from the apartment
and I noticed the carts were gone…upon further inspection, I noticed
my car parked in front with the engine on and items all loaded inside!
I MISS THAT LIFE!

A busy week of seminars and grants!! I was having a moment of
despair-well perhaps MORE than a moment, more like a MELT-DOWN over
trying to get a grant written in two days. I had to wait for
information from the artist in order to finish the grant and time was
running out. I was also on deadline for getting out PR for our next
exhibition and oh…trying to get the invitation ready for our Spring
Benefit. Plus, I had to entertain the DDD'S, so I couldn't work late
to finish it! ONE HAS TO HAVE PRIORITIES!! SOOOOO….I needed that
grant to be finished and I needed it to be finished NOW! I had the
good fortune to have an intern who wanted to learn about grant
writing! She was completing her PHD in Molecular Biology or something
like that..I thought PERFECT for the Art Center!! She really raised
the bar on the internship program! She helped with writing several
grants in the fall and then went home for the holidays. Her Hubby is
at Kellogg and she is here for the year until he graduates. I didn't
hear from her early January, but as always…one has to be very thankful
for whatever help one can get! HIGH ROAD! I thought she probably had
found another job or had had enough of MOI! Then…when things always
look their darkest…an email arrives! Hi Paula, just back from
visiting family. I would love to help you with any future grants.
Truly…prayers were answered. She was in my office the next day and we
had that grant ready to go on time! INTERNS ROCK!

Had time to attend a seminar on "How to make money in a down economy."
No, this wasn't sponsored by Kellogg…they didn't seem to find it
necessary to address that problem. It was sponsored by the Arts and
Business Council. A great organization that has excellent seminars to
help Arts organization work more efficiently! Naturally, I never
really learn anything NEW at these, but it is always important to know
that one is on the right path! The keynote speaker made it clear that
in order to survive in this economy, the MFA's need to think like
MBA's! OMGosh! What a NOVEL idea! The most perfect of seminars.
Looking around the room, I felt it was safe to assume that I was the
only MBA in the crowd. I could see the MFA's struggling to wrap their
arms around this concept. Give up my artist esthetic??? Realizing
that budgets DO MATTER. The speaker recognized that it would be
difficult to be sure. I just smiled and tried to be reassuring…TRUST
MOI…You will survive this!!

Call it the Mom FACTOR! We had a rental at the Art Center on Saturday
evening. A nursery school wanted to hold their fundraiser at the Art
Center. I thought it would be fabulous-one has to find CREATIVE ways
to raise funds in this economy! We don't really do this kind of
thing, so I was in charge for the evening. We also hired one of the
maintenance fellows to be on call. So fun to watch the Moms and Dads
transform the Art Center with decorations and auction items. So fun
because it wasn't MY EVENT! They all seemed very excited and
enthusiastic! I watched as Dads moved tables and chairs around,
helped with any set up requested by their wives…AH YOUTH! Wait until
your kids get into Jr. High and you have decorated that gym COUNTLESS
times! Anyway, the party was fun or at least sounded like FUN! I
retired to my office and then made spot checks throughout the evening.
The maintenance fellow was busy taking out garbage and helping during
the event. All seemed to be going well! The event was to be over at
11 p.m….everyone was having SO MUCH FUN that they stayed until 11:30
p.m. and what a surprise..only one couple was on the clean-up detail.
HMMMM…..we had to move all those tables that the crew of nice Dads had
moved earlier in the evening back to where they were, clean up the
floors and rooms. We had classes the next day, so we needed to leave
it ready to go! We all pitched in, but I felt so sorry for that one
couple-where were the other parents???!! Could have used some
Tri-Delts!!! Of course, the next thing we knew it was 1:00 A.M. The
maintenance fellow seemed worried (he does not have a face for
poker!). He had told me that his friend was going to pick him up
after the event. I asked him what time his ride was going to arrive.
He said that his ride wasn't going to be able to pick him up. What's
a MOM to do??? I inquired where he lived. In Bucktown-an area that
would be about a 40 minute drive. I could offer to pay for a taxi-but
didn't really want to wait for the taxi to arrive. Plus, the POINT of
having a rental is to MAKE money, not to spend it on $50 taxi rides!
Let's go-I'll give you a ride home!

Stopped in at Payless and was thrilled to find the following FAB SHOES!
Dexter Mayflower Buckle Pump in Mushroom or Black! $29 Don't let
the name DEXTER scare you. These pumps have an adorable buckle and
stacked heel. The mushroom color is PERFECT for spring! Plus, they
are comfortable!

Abaeté for Payless Gabriel Gladiator, $38, in Black is FABULOUS!
You can wear it now with Black Opaque pantyhose and then with bare
legs once it warms up! They also have the Abaeté for Payless Wyatt
Gladiator Slingback, $38, in Tan. Both are so chic and SO NOW…and for
these prices you can buy them all! The Abate line also has a very
cute black ballet flat!

alice + olivia for Payless Terry Messenger $20 on sale (online).
This messenger bag features a structured canvas bag with bold patent
accents and a Hot Pink satin lining!! It is 12"x 12" and includes an
inside zipper. SO ADORABLE!!

And a trip to the Japanese grocery store for those MUST HAVE
ITEMS…revealed a new skin care facial wash. With a name like "Lift
Wash" how could you resist! It seems like a great cleanser-will keep
you posted on the LIFT progress!!
Have a great week!
Love, P

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

“I guess we had a failure to COMMUNICATE….”

Things were going along as best as can be expected! It is nice to
have time off during the holidays…but, let's be honest…one really
doesn't get time off, since life marches on. You only get a chance to
take a "break!" My "Holiday" started with yours truly, spending
several hours picking up artwork at the FedEx Corporate facility. Any
self-respecting Mom is on a first name basis with the lovely folks at
the FedEx facility in Northbrook, since they are open until 9:00 p.m.
for pick up and sending. But, now life is a bit easier for all of us
because you can go to Kinkos to do that last minute mailing of all
those important items that your children have left at home and need
IMMEDIATELY. In fact, I felt very much "in the know" on Saturday,
when I was sending Jeffrey a few items that he had "left." Naturally,
he called MOI after the post office had closed, so headed to Kinkos
and was busy preparing my box, when I overheard a woman discussing her
FedEx needs with the nice fellow behind the counter (note to dear
readers, this was a different fellow than the one that I had the
experience with last fall!!!). She was sending several boxes to her
daughter (must be a freshman, since she didn't know the drill). Lots
of large ZAPPOS boxes (love this!) filled with items that didn't fit
in her suitcase. The shipping ended up costing $150, not bad I
thought for 5 large boxes!!! The mother just about had a heart
attack. Then she started with the…I will repack the boxes myself…etc.
I just smiled as I completed my forms. The young man behind the desk
said that she could, but once you get over a certain
weight..blah..blah..blah..it truly doesn't make any difference! I
took my place in line and hoped that she would SURRENDER quickly
because it was really snowing outside and I still had lots of errands
to do!!

Where was I???? FedEx o.k., so, the day before vacation, the
exhibition curator calls to see if the artwork from one of the artists
has arrived by FedEx. This is on Friday. The curator said the artist
sent it from New York on Monday. Hmmm….I didn't see it, but told her
I would look for it and call her back ASAP. I asked what size –
4 ft. x 6 ft. Hmmmm…that should be easy to spot!! Went searching in
the usual places and NO SIGN of a large box. Called back the curator
and asked her to get the tracking number and I would take it from
there. Did I mention that it was SNOWING….and I think the airports
were closed-didn't look promising. She called back with the tracking
number and then the information that the package was sent on Wednesday
for guaranteed arrival by Christmas (this is December 19th). O.K.
Well, let's see…Wednesday is not Monday and we were closing on the
19th for two weeks and wouldn't be here to receive it after Friday. I
would say a Failure to Communicate! Hmmmmmm…went online to track the
package and found it had arrived at 6 am that morning! HOORAY! At
least it was in Chicago!! Reported the info back the curator. Then
she wanted to know how late we would be working on Friday…O.K. Did I
mention it was snowing…it had snowed about 8-10 inches, so several
employees hadn't made it into work, because their cars were snowed in.
Not that I would EVER leave early, but it was a holiday vacation
coming up….I told her I would stay until 5 p.m. She seemed happy
about this. And here's the thing-she is one of the nicest people, so
I really couldn't get all bent out of shape about it….but, as the day
went by….and no artwork…..I had to go to plan B-Decided around 3 p.m.
to call FedEx to see what my options would be if the artwork arrived
on Monday or if I could pick it up! Chatted with a nice fellow who
told MOI that I could pick it up on Monday at the Commercial location
in Wheeling. He would tell them to hold it there for MOI! I
thought-thank goodness-a plan B! Called back the curator and told her
that I would pick it up on Monday. I wasn't sure where the place was
located, but I had the general idea. I thought this is easier than
waiting for it to arrive! She thought that would be fabulous! She
didn't offer to pick it up…but, as I have said-she is a lovely person
and very hard working…one does what one has to do!!

Did I mention that it continued to snow all weekend?? So all my plans
of getting errands completed and ready to go away for Christmas were
way behind schedule! On Monday, the curator kept calling in the a.m.
to see if I had picked up. Now, you can imagine how my day OFF was
going…already running late, snow, freezing and having to drive to the
Commercial location which was a 30 minute drive on a good day! I took
a deep breath and remembered to take the HIGH ROAD (always) and found
the location. A bit tricky trying to figure out how to enter the
location. Turns out it is a very SECURE location. You park and then
have to enter a small building for "security clearance" before you can
enter the main building. All this and I still wasn't completely sure
they even had the artwork!! Arrived at the small building-didn't
realize I would have to take off all my outer layers…(similar to the
airport!). Relieved that I was given the O.K. and then headed out to
the next building. Walked into an office building and there was just
a big empty room, with little cubicles off to one side.
HELLOOOOOOO???? "I'm here to pick up a package??!!" Fortunately, a
nice woman popped up and said that she could help MOI! (Note to self,
remember to make more noise when I return in the future (you all know
that this is going to happen again!!!!) I explain my situation (by
now another ½ hour has gone by!!!!) and then she tells MOI to have a
seat while I am waiting. Are you kidding MOI-just get me the @$!$%@^
package and let me out of here!! I know she is trying to be nice,
but I really needed to be moving along! I chose to stand while I
waited, so I had the opportunity to look into her cubicle. She had
some cute pictures of her kids and this being the Holiday Season, I
told her that her kid's pictures were adorable….She flashed a big
smile and said that they were her grandchildren. Then a discussion of
how young she looked…..FINALLY, the package arrived! It was rather
large and I hoped it wasn't heavy because I would be the one lugging
it into the car and then into the art center. I gave the woman my
business card, since it was not addressed to moi-she smiled and said
that she was going to give MOI a call because she was interested in
taking art classes in the spring!

Spent this week preparing for the big opening of the exhibition today.
Artwork all arrived and several artists installed their own work. I
had told the curator last fall, that I had managed to rent out the Art
Center for an event that would be held during the exhibition. She had
assured MOI that all the installations would be on the wall, so it
wouldn't be a problem. I was very excited about the rental, since it
would be a new source of income for the Art Center!! One has to be
"creative" during "these times!!" Fortunately for MOI, I have already
lived through several of "these times"…so I Know this drill!!! Truly
a benefit of being old!! I just wish I knew everything, because that
would make things so much easier! I happened to be walking by one of
the galleries as an artist was installing her work. I noticed that
she was putting "text" (FYI- very popular these days!) on the floor
with yarn. AND it was taking up most of the floor space in the
gallery. I just looked at the curator and said, "I have a rental for
this room and they will need to WALK in this space." The curator said
that she knew but, "I guess there was a COMMUNICATION
misunderstanding." Between WHOM????
Fear not dear readers…I have figured out a plan that will make all
parties happy. I may have to rethink my "rental" program going
forward!!!!

Watching Oprah and Suzy this week on "New Life" week or something like
that-I was not so inspired. Suzy suggests that to save money, you
should just stay home and NOT spend money. I wonder if I should send
her that article so she can do her own Pedicure! I did try to stay
home the other evening and not spend any money. It actually was fun!
I spent it researching shoe websites!! Found one, www.footcandy.com
to be quite fabulous!! Also, Payless provided some great buys for
spring! Check out the new Lela Rose line at Payless! The Palmetto
Peep Wedge and the Marigold Satin Flat features " a beautiful satin
upper with contrasting piping and an elegant D'Orsay silhouette."
This may be the closest I get to a D'Orsay anything!! Also, the
Analucia Halter Tote of "quality" canvas and glossy patent, and a
woven rope panel detail. It is very cute! Each under $30 – how can
you go wrong??!!

And here are a few tips to "rework" your wardrobe! A popular theme
right now! Again, similar to last week's searching for all those
fabulous Valentino ensembles that you have hidden in the back corners
of your closet!!! Take your Black Blazer and wear it over
EVERYTHING!! Make sure it is hip length, so it can go over
everything!! One suggestion is to put it over your evening frock (not
so sure on that one-would really depend on the frock!). But, it looks
very nice belted over a skirt and top, or pants and top. Also try
pushing up your sleeves to make it look "fresh!" And if you don't
have the fabulous blazer or your blazer isn't so fabulous-Head over to
Club Monaco!! Their "Manhattan Tex" wool blazer is very nice and will
do the trick! It might even be on sale!!! Also, check out Zara-they
are a great source for something like this!

Next find that Skinny Belt – Kohls and Tarjay have a nice selection!
See if you can find one in faux leather python! You can wear it with
a shift, over a cardigan (make sure it isn't too think-don't want that
"sausage look"), or with your jacket from above!! AND wear your
favorite white shirt under these looks! Don't have one-try the
Gap-They have a great one for $39.50!!! You can wear it over a tank
top or untucked under a sweater (makes it easy, since they always
become untucked anyway! Who knew you were already so chic!) Also try
to mix up day and night. If you pair tailored looks with pieces made
from evening fabrics-it looks very NEW! Try that white shirt with a
lace skirt and boots! VOILA-you are good to go!!!

Have a great week and try to stay home and out of the stores!!! HA HA HA!
XO,
P

Monday, December 15, 2008

Shopping for those Less Fortunate…

It always happens this time of year-signing up for sponsoring families at various nonprofits always seems like a great idea in OCTOBER…but, then December rolls around and there you are….the items are due on Monday!! Decided to sponsor different things for different families at various groups…again…seemed like a good idea AT THE TIME! Toys for one family, Books for another, Clothes for another and Food for another…Who can say no to an email-just click yes! I think I did less of this when I had to call people or ask at a meeting! It could also be that I feel guilty that I don't have the TIME to give to these organizations like I used to-so just signed on to help! There I was at 8:00 a.m. the other morning, in front of TarJay Desperate to get it-(It should be a commercial – woman pacing with lists in hand….can't wait to get into TarJAY!) I had an hour before I had to get to work-so it was Power Shopping to the Max!!!! Toys, who knew so many different Barbies…..started to ponder each one and OMGosh! All the accessories!! Time was wasting…I felt like I was on one of those TV shows where they give you 15 minutes to get everything you want at Toys R Us or someplace-I think Oprah does this?? I wish it was Neimans!!! Then headed over to the boys aisle! Brought back some memories!!! Everyone in the family needed coats-clothing! Lots of sizes to figure our and one group had very specific needs…OOPPPPSSSS the clothes are sized S M L…what does a three year old wear???? This is not so easy..OOPPSSSS somehow lost one of those lists…GOOD GRIEF…where is it??? Stop..do not pass GO…Lose one turn! Spent a few moments looking for the list, but decided…the family would be happy with anything! Another family needed a microwave…OMG..haven't purchased one of those in years!!! Headed over to Appliances and found one for $100!! Microwaves are still big and heavy! Not so many folks to help you at TarJay like Neimans!!

HMMMMMM….maybe I should get one for myself!! But, NO saving myself for the Shoe Dept.!!!

Headed over to the shoes and VOILA! The Sigerson Morrison Silver pointy toed heels with Jewel detail were ON SALE!! OMG! $31 a pair! Into the cart!! Are there more???? And some very cute booties by Mossimo!!!! Then over to see the IN STORE selection of Anya Hindmarch handbags! Bought all of them!! SO GORGEOUS!! Just a note-several say Anya Hindmarch for TarJay-but, the print is small (and at our age, who can read it without glasses??) and the bag is so cute! GO FOR IT!!! Plus, it has a bit of "being responsible in these difficult economic times" feel about it!! By now, it was 8:52 a.m. Headed to check out!! Even the check out clerk liked my bags!! We had a lovely little chat about them!! Swiped that Visa and out the door in One Hour! Of course, then had to sort out what went where-but, it does make one feel that they are making a difference for some! Wish I could play Barbies with that little girl!!!!

Of course, so glad to help others and realizing that I haven't done anything for those I love!! Thank goodness for FedEx!!!!

Dear friend, Mimi has a request if anyone is a 'member" of Rue La La-an online shopping website that you have be invited to join! LMK and we can all join!!!!!!
Today was the last day of our Winter Sale! So glad to have my weekends back again!! I am so behind on all my SPA appointments! MAINTENANCE is always a No. 1 priority!!!!
Hope you all are enjoying this holiday season! It is so special and goes by so quickly!!!!
I have included some treats for all of you!!!

Enjoy!!

Going to take a few weeks off! Heading to Jeff's Mom for the Christmas Holiday! Will be back writing again in the New Year on January 4th!!!
Merry Merry!
Love, P


Costume Jewels at www.neimanmarcus.com
Click on Costume Jewelry-Stephen Dweck shows some FAB rings! But, lots of bling for not so many $$$$!! We could all be happy!

And Jeff sends this NYTimes link for street fashion!! Love, Love, Love the coats and MUST HAVE those Burberry gloves!!!!!!


And a little something for the gardeners! Love those orchids!! CostCo had tons last weekend!!!!

Expert advice from Chicago growers gets your plant reblooming

By Nina A. Koziol | Special to the Tribune
December 14, 2008

Pondering a few red poinsettias to deck your halls this month? Sure, those big, beefy, look-at-me plants are the holiday workhorses of the horticultural world. But if you're looking for something a little different, even exotic, you might find yourself buying an orchid.

"There's something very mysterious about them," says Jim Sandrik of Park Ridge. "Maybe it's their beauty or maybe it's knowing that they're a challenge."

But if you've chosen an orchid to glam up the living room—or were the lucky recipient of an orchid gift—only to find yourself frustrated when your new plant refused to ever bloom again, take heart: The mystery of orchids, and the skills it takes to keep them blooming, are easy to unlock with a little expert advice.

Sandrik coddles a collection of 100 orchids, some that are nearly 30 years old, in a small spare bedroom equipped with special lights and fans. And, he spends an hour or two each Sunday watering and feeding all of them. But you don't need plant lights or a conservatory or a big block of time to keep an orchid or two healthy and happy enough to bloom more than once.

"The phalaenopsis orchid is one of the easiest to grow," says Adam Hausermann of Orchids by Hausermann, a specialty greenhouse in Villa Park. Also known as the "moth" orchid, phalaenopsis is one of the longest bloomers, sometimes flowering for two months or more. It can bloom two to three times a year under the right conditions.

Potted orchids have become so popular that they can be found in the floral section of local food stores and big-box stores, as well as garden centers and florists. Expect to pay anywhere from $12 to $40 or more depending on the size and variety of plant.

"Orchids are a great hobby," Hausermann says. "It's such a large plant family, there's something for everyone." Their names—cattleya, dendrobium, paphiopedilum, cymbidium—are tongue-twisters, to be sure. The flowers range from dangling spidery little blossoms to long stems of large waxy blooms. And some, like oncidium orchids, have delicate flowers that smell like chocolate or spice. Perhaps the best known are the cattleyas, the large flowers used as corsages, and the dendrobiums, used in the Hawaiian lei.

Here are some tips for helping your orchid through the winter and into another year of bloom:
Light: Different orchids have different cultural requirements, but in general, an east-, south- or west-facing window unobstructed by trees, drapes or curtains, with the pot out of direct sunlight, is a good start.

Watering: The fastest way to kill an orchid is to let it sit in a saucer of water. Better to take the plant to the sink once a week, give it a thorough soak until water runs out the bottom and then place it on the saucer.

Feeding: For one or two plants, Sandrik says, "purchase the smallest size water-soluble orchid fertilizer available and mix 1/4 teaspoon in a gallon of water, making sure it dissolves. Pour half of it into each plant when watering."

Temperature: Orchids tend to like daytime temps that range from about 65 to 75 degrees and evening temperatures from 55 to 65.
Humidity: Orchids prefer humidity in the 40 percent to 60 percent range. A furnace or room humidifier can help as well as placing the pots on saucers that sit over a bed of wet gravel.

Flowering stems: After it has flowered the first time, cut a phalaenopsis stem about half the way down just above a node (looks like a slight bulge). From this node a new flower stem should emerge and flower in about 120 days.

Things that bust their blooms: The air is too hot, especially at night. The soil is too dry or too wet. The plant is getting too much or too little light. Don't repot the plant while it has buds or blooms. Wait until it is done flowering and then repot in about the same size pot using special orchid mix from the garden center.

Yellow leaves: It's natural to have a few yellow older leaves at the base of the plant. If the newer leaves are turning yellow, it may indicate too much or too little water.

And found this FAB Truffle Bars recipe! Made it for the work folks and they were very happy!!!
YUM!!!

Truffle Bar Base
unsalted butter
8 oz (2 sticks)
unsweetened baking chocolate, chopped
7 oz (7 squares)
granulated sugar
2 cups
large eggs
4
all purpose flour, not sifted
1 cup
Vanilla extract
1 teaspoon
walnuts, chopped
1 cup


Preheat the oven to 350_F.
Lightly spray a 9" x 13" cake pan with some pan spray. Set aside.
Place the butter in a heavy saucepan.
Melt the butter over low heat.
Remove the pan from the heat.
Add the unsweetened chocolate to the melted butter, stirring constantly with a wooden or nylon spoon until the chocolate is completely melted. Add the sugar and stir to completely combine.
Add the eggs, one at a time, stirring vigorously after each addition to thoroughly combine the egg into the batter.
Add the flour and stir to combine.
Add the Vanilla extract and walnuts.
Pour batter into prepared pan.
Bake for 20 to 25 minutes only. The brownie may still look soft and shiny. Care must be taken not to over bake the base or it will end up being dry and crumbly.
Remove from the oven and place on a cooling rack.
Cool completely.

Truffle Topping
Dark Chocolate Bars (2 oz each)
4 each
heavy whipping cream
3/4 cup
light corn syrup
1 Tablespoon
unsalted butter, softened
1 Tablespoon


Chop the chocolate and place in a stainless steel or glass bowl.
Place one inch of water in a small heavy saucepan.
Place the saucepan on the stove and bring the water to a simmer.
Remove the saucepan from the stove.
Place the bowl containing the chopped chocolate on top of the pan of simmering water.
Stir the chocolate until it is completely melted.
Remove the bowl from the top of the pan and dump the water out.
Place the cream and light corn syrup into the sauce pan and bring to a boil.
Pour the hot liquid over the melted chocolate.
Whisk the hot liquid and the chocolate together to completely combine.
Set the chocolate mixture aside and allow the Ganache to cool for five minutes.
Whisk the softened butter into the chocolate mixture.
Allow the Ganache to cool to room temperature. The mixture will be a thick, custard-like consistency.
Whisk the Ganache just until it begins to lighten in color slightly.
Spread the whipped Ganache evenly over the brownie base.
If desired, cover the top of the bars with shaved dark chocolate.
Allow the bars to sit at room temperature until the Ganache firms up.
Dust lightly with cocoa powder.
Cut into 1 1/2 inch squares.
Store the finished bars in an airtight container to prevent from drying out.
These have a better eating quality if eaten at room temperature.
Yield: approximately 6 dozen squares

ENJOY!

And last but not least!
This is simply DIVINE!!

French Pear Martini
Mix together:
1.5 oz dry white wine
1.5 oz Grey Goose La Poire (YUM!)

Top with Champagne
Sugar to rim glass!
Cheers!!

Monday, December 1, 2008

Fallen Off the BEAUTY Wagon!

How did this happen??? I was doing so well…taking MY OWN ADVICE and trying all these beauty products…I am on a First Name basis with the CVS and Walgreen beauty counter specialists (that's what their name card said!). Also using Arbonne products, which are FAB! And everything I used was working wonders…But, alas….all the creams in the world can only DO SO MUCH! Age does take its toll! Going nonstop for several weeks on end…can even do MOI in! Running from work to try to manage all the impending volunteer commitments leaves one little time for rest! Setting up for the Thrift House holiday opening last Sunday, following the Art Center's Holiday opening last Friday, caused concern from a fellow Thrift House volunteer. She turned to MOI as we were fighting over a Prada dress (we both wear the same size) and said that she had NEVER seen MOI looking so fatigued, including BAGS under my eyes (of course, they are ALWAYS there, I do an AMAZING job of concealing them!!). MON DIEU! What is a woman to do??! HEAD RIGHT OUT AND BUY MORE PRODUCT!!!! I did try to get more sleep on one day last week! But, preparing for the Thanksgiving feast always calls for a LATE NIGHT on Wednesday or is that an early a.m. on Thanksgiving??!! So looking forward to relaxing over the weekend….only to discover that I had to work all weekend!!

Not PLANNING to work all weekend-if I had KNOWN that I had to work all weekend, I would have SAID SOMETHING! But then that's the CODE! We all know the CODE..that is Don't tell your Mother or Don't tell your Father or in this case, Don't tell PAULA! With a successful opening of our Winter Arts and Crafts Expo, I had said that I would work the Friday after Thanksgiving, since the Art Center is normally closed! ANYTHING for a sale!! That retail spirit returns!! The Art Center was only closed for Thanksgiving and the Friday, so I ASSUMED that I would really only have to work on Friday, since the weekend staff would take over on Saturday and Sunday! Just one little problemo….the regular weekend staff receptionist was off for the holiday and the NEW receptionist would be there for the entire weekend…FUNNY, how that LKF (little known fact), somehow didn't get mentioned to MOI-Another CODE!!

Things were going well on Friday, I arrived opened up, the NEW receptionist arrived to work the register, which is a computerized affair. The only thing I hadn't counted on was that the NEW Receptionist thought she was there to help MOI as back-up! MON DIEU! We both had a "moment" when we realized that each of us thought we were doing the other's job!!! She said that she would need me there as back-up for the ENTIRE weekend!! Now granted, we were only open 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. on Friday and Saturday and noon-4 p.m on Sunday…but still….when is one to prepare for the Holidays??!! Those outdoor containers take time to make!! Not to mention everything else! But hey, that's what the paycheck is for!! I mentally went down the list of everything I could push off to next week, and we were good to go!! We actually were busy, so it worked out well that I was there! Since I was check out back up, I was chief wrapper! It made me a bit nervous wrapping all these lovely glass and ceramic pieces….but, I did my best and focused on the task at hand! A few errors with the Credit Card machine were solved by MOI! Those years of Retail come in handy!!! I decided to add a "festive" air to the event and donned several different Christmas Tree Skirts over the weekend! They were made of fleece and not only festive, but warm!!!! They are actually quite versatile…first as a shawl and later in the day as an actual skirt! Who knows, it may be the next big hit on the runways!! If the "poodle skirt" ever comes back!! I will be prepared!

Having so many hours to spend and not able to actually go to my office to do work, I decided to SHOP the Expo. There are some very chic fiber accessories! This woman is not only an artist, but a fashionista!! I LOVE THIS! She has made this scarf like thing out of very cool yarns and it looks like a necklace…I know I am not describing it very well, but when you put it on-it looks very FAB! She also makes a scarf for your winter coat which is like a "Dickie." Again, very cool! It just fits around your neck and doesn't add any bulk…what's not to like!! Some terrific jewelry too! Love the bracelets and rings!! Not too many cuff's-maybe they are hard to make?? Fabulous antique beaded necklaces and a selection of Ikebana containers…I am good to go! AND to top it all off, very fun notecards!! Truly, I can save the time that I would spend at the shopping malls buying presents and buy everything at the Art Center! But, here's the thing….most of the folks that I buy presents for-LOVE to get those gift cards and I can get those at the grocery store!!! Soooooo, I guess I am shopping for MOI!

Dear Friend, Roxanne Boerke shares these wonderful tips!
She is taking Flower Arranging classes at New Trier extension from Michael (Chicago School of Flower Design). These classes include Hand Tied Bouquets! Who knew-right here in our own back yard!! They look wonderful!!! http://www.newtrier.k12.il.us
Floral design is under arts and crafts in the catalog!

And here is Roxanne's info on Discounts while shopping on line!!
You asked how to get a discount while shopping on line. google search ie, "macys.com coupons". (website address -space- coupons) i am amazed at the discounts i can find. they are not always available and it may take some searching through what google lists or trying the coupon on the check out page (usually a box titled promotion code or coupon). it is so satisfying when they work! i found myself doing a lot of this when i had 2 babies at home. also, be sure to check out your favorite sites on cyber monday, there should be plenty of discounts out there.

there are also coupon websites where you can enter your store and a coupon may pop up. some of those are: Savings.com, Shoppersresource.com, Couponwinner.com, Promotionalcode.com, and Webcouponcodes.com.
Thank you Roxanne!! This is information we can all use!!!!

You can also join online Sample Sale sites:
www.Gilt.com
www.Hautelook.com
www.Ideeli.com
and www.shopstyle.com lets you do a really refined search and has a ton of great stores in it's network!

And for all your HOLIDAY Glamour! Buy a clutch! So many to choose from and at so many price points!!! Anyone will do! Check out Forever 21!!!! www.sondraroberts.com has great clutches too!
Check out Simply Vera at Kohl's-she does a nice job with satin items and a Faux Fur silver cropped coat is FAB!!!!

As we all know-keep the bling to a one focal point-bracelets, necklace or fab earrings…but, don't wear them all together! This website has some great bracelets and earrings!!! And love the price point!!
http://www.richrocksnyc.com/index.html

Will try to find the perfect holiday cookie recipe for next week or send MOI your favorite!!
Let the Holiday's begin!!
XO,
P

Monday, November 17, 2008

Hand Tied Bouquets!

What a week, not one, but TWO floral arranging seminars featuring Hand Tied Bouquets!! And then on the news, a segment on the School of Floral Design….Does it truly get any better than this??!! Paula Pryke of London Fame, breezed into town to give an unbelievable 2+ hour demonstration on all her techniques of flower arranging. She started with variations on Hand Tied Bouquets making it look easier than making lanyards!!! I know that when I was a camp counselor, I did know how to make a lanyard, but I do believe I struggled with that. AND here was Paula, just throwing these incredible bouquets together that were GINORMOUS…I was sitting in the back, so I couldn't see the size of her hand, but they looked fairly normal sized..so I was in total awe and amazement as she whipped these flowers into visions of loveliness and all in the palm of her hand. She said that it was easy to do with a bit of practice. However, MOI knows better!! Ikebana looks easy too…..but, you just try finding the right branch!

So, it was with continued amazement that I attended my Ikebana International meeting today to view yet another demonstration of Hand Tied Bouquets. Our guest demonstrator was a faculty member from the American School of Flower Arranging (yes, we are stealing from the Brits!). He made a large array of Hand Tie Bouquet arrangements and each one was a bit different. He made small ones and attached them to a wreath. He made large ones in clear vases that he covered with this wire mesh wrapping material that you can get a Michaels…He used colored wire to create a kenzan in a clear vase and then put the Hand Tied Bouquet in that. Tied it up with a wire bow from CostCo! He also used these little cubes that you soak in water and then put them in a clear vase. You add cranberries and they sort of float in the clear cubes (think gelatin) and then here is the best thing…you can buy these little votive lights called, eco-lights, that can be turned on and SUBMERGED in the jello-cranberry mixture. I mean TRULY…does it get any better than this??!! Paula also had some tricks up her sleeve using CROTON leaves on outside of a clear vase and tied it with wire. She said they would last up to 4 days. CROTON leaves have great color, so you can use them for many occasions! You can fill the vases with a variety of flowers-very FESTIVE!!!

It was such good fortune to see two excellent demonstrations in less than four days knowing that I will probably never be able to master this type of flower arranging!!! I did speak to the fellow from the American School of Flower Arranging and asked if I could just take a class in Hand Tied Bouquets and he said YES! So stay tuned Chi-town readers and I will let you know when the next class is being held!! Well worth it!!!!!

Of course, attending the Ikebana meeting always brings with it memories of living in Japan and trying to keep a part of that experience alive in my current life! NOT SO SIMPLE!! The meeting was in a suburb, an hour from home, so that means two hours of driving time. Of course, I truly couldn't believe that it was really an hour away, so I left late, but arrived just in time for LUNCH! I had to take the last open seat, which meant that I didn't get to sit by dear friend, Janet Knowlton, who is living in the Chicago area. We were friends in Tokyo and also at Ikebana International. She went on to live all over the world, but has now landed in Chi-Town. (I am sure the highlight of all her destinations!!) It is fun to see her after 15 years! The demonstration and meeting lasted 4 hours, so Janet and I waved to each other. You know, this WAS my life in Tokyo, when you felt like you had accomplished something if you did ONE thing a day…But, this is my current life and I need to do 15 things a day… the people in the group are lovely…but, Janet and I both looked at each other and said..THIS IS SO NOT FITTING WITH OUR LIVES!!!!
It is the love of Ikebana that brings people together, but trying to make it a part of your life is something else!

And doesn't that seem the mantra lately…THIS IS SO NOT FITTING WITH OUR LIVES!! It usually appears during the beginning of the holiday season! You have all these things that you need to do and hope that people will help you and they are in the same boat and decide to bail on you!! The funny thing is that, what you had signed up to do is still there!! YIKES!! I can usually handle my own volunteer commitments, but this season, it seems more than ever, the need is greater. Perhaps it is the economy, maybe it is an excuse for some. I am not sure, but I must be on the speed dial of those groups that need help, since the phone keeps ringing!!! But, that is what all-nighters are for!!! I love it when the young people come to work looking like they pulled an all-nighter…and guess what they did!! I tell them that I can RELATE!!!!

Attended a Fashion seminar on "Your Image in times of FLUX!" It wasn't for the Fashion Forward, but still some great ideas to share:

1. Hone your people skills, conversational arts and emotional intelligence. What is that?? This was a term I wasn't that familiar with, but in times of FLUX it is important to know what to think! Here's a definition from Wikipedia and if this isn't clear, click on the link for an entire discourse and see if it is any clearer!!!!

Emotional Intelligence
(EI), often measured as an Emotional Intelligence Quotient (EQ), describes an ability, capacity, skill or (in the case of the trait EI model) a self-perceived ability, to identify, assess, and manage the emotions of one's self, of others, and of groups. It is a relatively new area of psychological research. The definition of EI is constantly changing.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_intelligence

Shop SALES!! (Tell us something WE don't know!)
Use coupon websites: www.ebates.com, www.wow-coupons.com (you can let MOI know about these)
Expand your global network, internally and externally-Facebook here we come!
Add Accessories!

And advice for the Fashion Forward! Buy a Capelet!
They are everywhere in all price points (try to buy one on SALE)! They are cable knit and faux-fur trimmed (what I bought-bien sur!). It looks best with a pencil skirt or jeans. And be sure to wear Pointy-toed shoes!!!!!

In case you missed last week's lipstick fest in the NYTimes-here you go!!

By ELLEN TIEN
Published: November 7, 2008

As the economy crumbles, the Lipstick Index — that frivolous financial barometer that says cosmetics sales rise in direct relation to free-falling finances — has jumped. Sales in the last few months are up 40 percent. Here are 41 of fall's most popular pick-me-ups, from $1.99 to over $50. What do women want when they aren't allowed to want too much? Traditional lipsticks in more-sheer neutral shades; the bright reds of days gone by have been replaced by pinky browns and rosy taupes.

Top row, from left to right:

1. Benefit Full-Finish lipstick in Ladies' Choice, $18 at benefitcosmetics.com.

2. Sisley Hydrating long-lasting lipstick No. L17, $55 at Neiman Marcus stores.

3. Vincent Longo Lipstain SPF lipstick in Americana, $23 at vincentlongo.com.

4. Pur Minerals lipstick in Raspberry Quartz, $15 at Ulta stores.

5. Shiseido Perfecting lipstick in P13, $22.50 at sephora.com.

6. Mark Dew Drenched Moisturlicious lip color in Pretty Posey, $6 at meetmark.com.

7. Jane Iredale PureMoist LipColour in Melisa, $19 at Vert in Los Angeles, (310) 581-6126.

8. Josie Maran lipstick in Rumi Joon, $20 at barneys.com.

9. MAC lipstick in Viva Glam VI, $14 at maccosmetics.com.

10. Clinique Long Last Soft Shine lipstick in Bamboo Pink, $14 at clinique .com.

11. Avon Beyond Color Plumping lip color in Divine Wine, $8 at avon .com.

12. Dior Addict High Shine lipstick in Casual Beige, $25 at Bloomingdale's stores.

13. Mally Beauty lipstick in Zooey Doll, $15 at henribendel.com.

14. Origins Smileage Plus Organic Liptint in Vintage, $11 at origins.com.

15. Nars lipstick in Dolce Vita, $24 at narscosmetics.com.

16. Sally Hansen Natural Beauty in Plum Shimmer, $9.99 at Duane Reade stores.

17. Shu Uemura Rouge Unlimited Crème Matte lipstick in Red 165M, $23 at shuuemura-usa.com.

18. DuWop Prime Venom nude lip plumping balm and primer, $20 at Sephora.

19. Michael Marcus lipstick in Jenifer, $24 at michaelmarcus.com.

20. N.Y.C. New York Color Ultra Last LipWear in Brandy Sparkle, $1.99 at Wal-Mart stores.

21. Sue Devitt lipstick in Zimbabwe, $20 at Barneys New York.

Bottom row, from left to right:

22. Bobbi Brown lip color in Brown, $22 at bobbibrowncosmetics.com.

23. By Terry Rouge Delectation lipstick in Icy Praline, $41 at Barneys New York stores.

24. Jouer Lip Color in Phoebe, $22 at Henri Bendel in New York, (800) 423-6335.

25. Rimmel Lasting Finish lipstick in Coffee Shimmer, $4.95 at CVS stores.

26. Ramy lipstick in Ramy Red, $17 at ramybeautytherapy.com.

27. Estée Lauder Signature Hudra Lustre lip at bobbibrowncosmetics.com.

28. Chanel Rouge Hydrabase in Enigma $27 at chanel.com.

29. Chanel Rouge Allure in Naïve, $30 at chanel.com.

30. Calvin Klein Delicious Luxury Crème lipstick in Oasis, $18 at sephora.com.

31. Trish McEvoy sheer lipstick in Innocent Sheer, $22 at Saks Fifth Avenue stores.

32. YSL Beauté Rouge Volupté lipstick in Sweet Honey, $29 at Henri Bendel in New York, (800) 423-6335.

33. Smashbox Photo Finish lipstick in Delightful, $22 at Sephora stores.

34. Rilastil Long Lasting Color Fix in Tender Rose, $28 at C. O. Bigelow in New York, (212) 533-2700.

35. Laura Mercier lip color in Pink Champagne, $22 at lauramercier.com.

36. Paul & Joe Lipstick N in No. 17, $20 at thebeautycloset.com.

37. TheBalm Read My Lips lipstick in Letter to the Editor, $16 at C. O. Bigelow in New York (212) 533-2700.

38. Lipstick Queen by Poppy King sheer lip color in Medieval, $20 at Barneys New York stores.

39. Kat Von D Painted Love lipstick in Lolita, $18 at sephora.com.

40. Korres Mango Butter SPF 10 in Nude 33, $18 at sephora.com.

41. BeingTRUE translucent lip color in Protagonist, $22 at truelynatural.com.

Have a great week!!
Love, P

And here are some holiday recipes from friend, Louise Davis!
Go to this website!
YUM!!
http://www.northpole.com/Kitchen/Cookbook/rec0741.html

Thursday, November 6, 2008

"“Raise Your Hand if….."

There I was at the Association for Fundraising Professionals (AFP) Midwest conference, EAGER to hear this speakers thoughts on starting your own Planned Giving program…almost as exciting as those banking days!! I truly can't get over how so many things are transferable!! The plans, processes, marketing….all similar between profit and nonprofit. I think the only difference is that the nonprofit world doesn't think they are the same!!!! Have to work on that! This very nice fellow was beginning his program with, "Raise your hand if you are the person at your organization that is in charge of the Annual Appeal." All 100 attendees raised their hand. "Keep your hand raised, if you are ALSO in charge of the Planned Giving." 25 hands went down. "Keep you hand raised if you are ALSO in charge of Major Gifts." 25 hands went down. "Keep your hand raised if you are ALSO in charge of Events." Another 25 hands went down. I was looking around the room AMAZED that there were still others in a similar position as MOI!! "Keep your hand raised if you are ALSO in charge of the PR." Down went 15 hands. "Keep your hand raised if you are ALSO in charge of the Marketing." Down went 5 more!

5 of us left with Hands Raised!! The speaker went on to say-Let's give these folks a hand!! One Person Shop!!! I was a bit surprised…I hadn't really thought of my job in these terms. It seems like you just do what you have to do! I could see my fellow conference attendees viewing MOI in a new light, instead of who is that OLDER woman over there…now I was a ONE PERSON SHOP WONDER!!!!

My last session was on how to raise money in difficult financial times!! Hoping to find TRUE insight here! Three speakers from different corporations all seemed quite pleasant and were smiling…so I thought, this has to be good!! They all outlined their giving strategies, none of which would apply to my job…so, I remained hopeful that they would provide ADDITIONAL insight…and then….it appeared on the screen: "Skilled Volunteering!!" Skilled Volunteering…why didn't I think of calling it that!! You are all in DEMAND, since you are skilled volunteers!! In fact, one company offered pro bono assistance with website design (I took note of that!!!), but that really isn't what we need from a corporation…we need the $$$$! Of course, pro bono legal or accounting help is always desired, but that isn't going to help balance my budget, if I don't need those services. They went on to say they were looking for "Team Building" volunteer experiences for their employees, such as painting…Friend, Louise Davis suggested that we could get another dumpster and instead of MOI spending the day going up and down those stairs, it could be a TEAM BUILDING project!! This definitely has possibilities!

And alas, just like Oprah's makeovers…I hate to admit it, but I have not kept up my "organizing system in my office." It isn't horrible, but the piles are back-maybe a function of 6 different things all converging at once….but still, no excuses….I called my organizer helper back on Saturday for a session! He was nice, but firm-he didn't really YELL at MOI, but just said that he couldn't believe that I had fallen back into my old habits (It was a good thing he didn't see the piles of papers on my dining room table!)….Well, what does he expect, MIRACLES?? He is correct, of course…but, I am doing my best!! We managed to get things back in order and better shape. Why does this happen??? I AM open to change…I just have certain habits that are hard to break! Those piles of papers!! He is trying to help MOI get rid of things that I can find on the web. My problem is that if I don't see it, I don't always think of looking it up on the web. Every time I put a piece of paper in the recycling, he would shout HOORAY! It is nice to get that POSITIVE reinforcement! I can see why our kids love it!!! We are working on setting up a Google doc where I can keep my notes, instead of using all those cute note cards that are pink with a "P" on them! BUT, I LOVE THOSE NOTE CARDS!! I told him that I would be a challenge!! At the end, we decided that his Tag Line should be, "He's tough, but gets RESULTS!"

As many of you know, I LOVE anything with made with apples, as in PIE, TARTE TATIN, CRISP, and my all time favorite, Carmel apples, so Delicious!! I am so excited this time of year because Carmel apples abound! So you can ONLY imagine my horror to discover the caloric count of my FAVORITE TREAT!!! I was about to bite into this delicious treat when I saw that the calorie count was only 140 calories per serving per apple. HOW FABULOUS!! And just as I was to take the SECOND bite, I noticed the fine print in the SERVING size…..3 per apple! ARE YOU KIDDING MOI!!!! Three folks sharing ONE APPLE! Oh my goodness!! Here I was ready to chow down on the entire thing, not realizing I had to share it with others if I wanted to stay thin!
It is NEVER easy is it!

Chatting with fellow young people in the office, another FAB shoe site for you all!
www.shoebuy.com

Time to get out the PURPLE!! Jeff is certainly excited about this color!! His beloved Northwestern team may even get invited to a Bowl Game! Let's just hope it is in a geographically desirable destination!!

PURPLE goes well with Black and Grey, so it can go with your wardrobe. One piece will signify to others how truly CHIC you are!

Look for something simple, such as a sweater, maybe a cardigan or turtleneck, handbag, ballet flat, Bootie (INC International Concept: Coral Bootie, $89 at Macy's. A wool scarf could give that black winter coat just the touch it needs!!

Taking next week off from the Newsletter, Heading to Mexico for a holiday! Can't wait to see what Fashion tips I can find there!!!!

A full report in two weeks!!

Lot of love,
P

Monday, October 27, 2008

And WHICH budget would that come out of????

The call came in from the Board President…if you ever want me to pick up my phone, just use the Board President's cell phone and I will be sure to answer! I KNOW to answer that phone call!!! He is always very direct and asked how many Poinsettia plants I wanted to order for the Art Center for Holiday decoration. HMMMMM….since I provide the weekly floral arrangements (at my own expense), I was very surprised to find that the Art Center bought Poinsettias for the Holidays. And, as I am very FAMILIAR with every line in our budget, never noticed one for Holiday poinsettias! And, not wishing to appear confused on the phone with the Board President, (these are the issues I face on a daily basis!!!!) I decided that honesty would be the best. "I didn't realize that we purchased Poinsettias for the Holidays. Did we do this last year?" (I have found it wise to ask if they did it last year…gives a reference point!) "Well, yes…I am sure we did." Always wanting to provide a more decorative interior for the Art Center, I was thrilled that we did this. However, with no idea how we would pay for it, short of MOI paying for it…decided to inquire further! The Board President went on to say that we had ordered some small ones and medium size ones. O.K.???? "And Which Budget would this come out of???" The Board President seemed a bit surprised that I would be so hesitant to order the Poinsettias. Don't get MOI wrong, I LOVE poinsettias…Jeff loves Poinsettias we all LOVE poinsettias…but, as we all know, the take lots of care, watering and maintenance to look FAB! Plus, they don't like the cold and I could only think of putting them by the entrance, with a door that opens constantly. ON THE OTHER HAND….it would save MOI time, since I wouldn't have to do the arrangements for a few weeks. And let's be honest….I am truly into saving times these days!!! I am like, WHO CAN I PAY TO DO THINGS!!! And it isn't event December yet (I usually flip out at that time of year..this is a little early!!!

We have our Winter Expo Arts and Crafts sale staring in November and running until mid-December, which has put me into high gear a little earlier than usual! The Expo takes over the entire first floor of the Art Center with 85 artists selling their items….so, not sure we would even have the space for those poinsettias. You can see my dilemma…. There had to be MORE to this phone call…You know how that goes with your kids, when you are getting only PART OF THE STORY…it was that same conversation. So….the Board President continued to say that he was selling them for one of his organizations!! Are you Kidding MOI??!!!!

That's better!! Everyone should know that you can't fool MOM! Now, I get the picture. I always order poinsettias for our house from various fundraisers, so I am happy to order them from him! "Here's the deal….we can't order them for the Art Center, but I am happy to buy them for my house." Not quite the response he was looking for, but continued…"Well, how many do you want? They are small, medium and large." CLEARLY, he does not buy poinsettias for his own home. SMALL, MEDIUM and LARGE…I need dimensions… "Do they come in different colors?" I always order a selection and like the pink/white combos. "Different Colors???" I could see that he wasn't a happy camper…He just wanted me to say 5 medium ones in red, this was getting to be an ORDEAL…but, hey….if I am buying them for my home…I want them to be right! "Do you have an order form that lists all the info???" This put him over the edge…First the sigh, then he said he had to go, but would drop something off this week. I truly didn't mean to be difficult, but, for a floral arranger, poinsettias are IMPORTANT! Just trying to do my job and stay on BUDGET!!!!

Went to a luncheon for my new group, CWIP – love that acronym! Chicago Women in Philanthropy. They were celebrating their 25th anniversary with a luncheon honoring Desiree Rogers, now the President of Social Networking for Allstate. That is a title for MOI to aspire too!!!!!!! She is an amazing woman and has been a role model for working women, so I was looking forward to words of wisdom from this super woman!! She was dressed in a very Chic and FAB suit! Love that!! Couldn't see the shoes from my seat, but I just KNEW they would be perfect! She received her award and then took the podium to much applause….the room grew quiet and she began. "I really don't like to speak from prepared notes….." Are you kidding MOI!! Here is this super woman, speaking off the cuff…I knew we were in trouble! She spent the first 5 minutes thanking everyone, a nice touch and then sort of "winged it!" As you all know, I am La REIGN of winging it, but not when I am speaking to a group of 500 women! She started talking a bit about the downturn in the economy and how it would be affecting nonprofits…O.K., here we go…..looking for a way to perhaps see if there will be hope for this year ahead! That aforementioned budget will only be balanced, if I make that 25% increase in my fundraising…

She went on to say that nonprofits should look to having more volunteers to help out, since people will have less money to donate, they will give more time.
Less Money..More Time??????

My mind is reeling…maybe a slogan… "We will take your time, instead of your money!" Then, I thought….I really need to see how I can turn those volunteer hours into $$$$$ (if I figure out how to do this, then I will truly be amazing!!). Now, many of us do volunteer to raise $$$ for many nonprofits, but, this wasn't what she was referring to in this speech. I think she felt that we could have volunteers do things that nonprofits pay for, thereby saving us money! There is some merit in this! However, nonprofits truly have become leaner in the past few years, so those fun volunteer jobs have gone away!! The jobs that we need help with are data entry and maintenance! Not so enticing for those volunteers and then there is the little problem of paying for certain services. Artists are very generous people, but if they are teaching classes, they would like to be paid! This is their job! Not sure if volunteers teaching their classes will really make it!

The speech ended and I found myself standing close to Desiree as we were leaving. I thought here is my chance to really get further definition on her Less/More theme…maybe some ideas. I waited patiently for my turn and was about to introduce myself, when this younger woman just walked right in front of MOI! She had on a name badge with her bank listed on it(and one that I KNOW people at!)….I didn't say anything, mainly because I was so surprised that someone would be so RUDE! She introduced herself, chatted and then walked off. Of course, by this time, Desiree had to go, so missed my moment…Heading over to the elevator, the door opened and I got in, the doors were just about to close when Ms. Rude walks in. She looks at MOI (We had 20 floors to go!) and realizes who I was. She turned and said, "I am sorry, that was so RUDE of me to go in front of you, just now." A nice touch, I thought, but I couldn't help myself and replied… "You should really think about breaking into a conversation, while wearing a name tag."

Chic for Less is now everywhere-including an entire section in the November issue of INSTYLE mag! BUY IT!!! TarJay is still hot…People Mag featured many of the items I wrote about last week! Although, some of the items are already sold out online!! See if you can find them in stores and BUY THEM!

For Handbags-check out www.sandraroberts.com some great buys under $100!!! Also, www.shopsueyboutique.com has a great selection!
Check out the bracelets at J. Crew – www.jcrew.com, they are 12K gold-plated with resin and wood beads, so fab and at $95- a great look for not too much $$$
Great bangle bracelets for $30 and $35 at www.emitations.com stack them with your watch or mix them with your bracelets from J. Crew. Keep all other jewelry minimal!

And with SNOW in this week's forecast….Boots are everywhere! Saw some very cute ones form Hogan at Saks…they are motorcycle in style with a round toe, Mid-calf and a small buckle detail…but, on the other hand, you probably will have more fun shopping at this website where BOOTS are FAB at www.newport-news.com

Love the Patent Leather High boots and also the booties with a ribbon detail.
"Luke" faux leather boots by Michael Antonio at www.shiekhshoes.com for $53 are Fab and you won't have to worry about the snow ruining them!!

And as it gets colder some tips for LIPS!

Fab Lip Glosser-for $29 – you will love it!
http://lauragormancosmetics.com/products/lip-toxyl-sheer-starlet

And for under $10 the following!
LanoLip's All-Natural Lip Scrub exfoliates and SMOOTHS with sugar! YUM!! www.lanolip.com $9.99

CoverGirl Outlast Smoothwear lipliner's precision pen lasts all day (or at least a long time!!) $5.99 at Drugstores

Collagen-boosting (always FAB) Sally Hansen Lip Line treatment fills in those little lines around the mouth! $9.95 at Drugstores

Korres Lip Butter in Pomegranate is filled with antioxidants, including vitamin C and E, gives chapped lips a shine and touch of pink! www.sephora.com $9

Vaseline Lip Therapy in Cherry is time tested and FAB for $1.99 at Drugstores.

Green by Nature Lip Shine gives you a shine with a peppermint-oil glaze which leaves your breath smelling FAB too! For $9.99, A 2-fer!! www.greenbynaturebeauty.com

Happy Halloween!!
Love, P

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Brush with Fame!

Chicago has experienced a "spot" of rain this weekend!! 8 inches in our neighborhood, which for us, is quite a bit!! Lots of flooding, but for MOI….a blessing in disguise. Now that both boys are away, hubby, Jeff looks FORWARD to attending all the Northwestern football games with MOI! Of course, they are fun..but, he likes to GO EARLY, and since most games start at 11:00 a.m., that means leaving at 9:00 a.m. for Tailgating, which actually means that I have to get everything ready BEFORE 9:00 a.m. and then returning home around 4:00 p.m. Pretty much shoots the day! And when you are a working Gal….those Saturdays are VERY IMPORTANT for SHOPPING!!!! But, after 28 years of marriage, I know that this is not NEGOTIABLE!!! So, I smile, don my "Purple" attire (actually, lots to choose from this season!!!) and make the best of it! You can imagine my thoughts as I awoke to the torrential downpour that had been going on all night. I greeted Jeff with a cheerful "what time do you want to leave?" It was all I could do to smile. I could see Jeff was thinking….Maybe skip the Tailgate and go at 10:00 a.m. (10:00 a.m. and do what?? Sit in the rain for an additional hour???!!), but remained cheerful..O.K…what ever you say. Showered and washed my hair, about to put on make-up and thought, WHY BOTHER…it is pouring outside and I will be so wet…

Went downstairs to find Jeff surveying the yard (which by now is underwater) and the street, no flooding there yet, but the TV was announcing that parts of the local expressway were closed. I SAY NOTHING…..Jeff flips the channels and finds that the Game will be shown on the Big 10 network! YES! I STILL SAY NOTHING….I try to remain casual…get the "To Go" cups for coffee…"What time, honey??" Then, the most AMAZING thing comes out of his mouth…..I think it is too dangerous (dangerous??) to be driving around today, with all the streets flooding…so let's skip the game! I try to contain my GLEE! REMAIN CASUAL! Oh, o.k., I may just try to run a few errands then!!!!! OFF I WENT!!

It is so wonderful to have a "free day!" Of course, before this, had no time to get the manicure/pedicure that I was desperate for-so I called around and found someone free at a local salon! HOORAY! Then, just another run over to Carson's to check out more of the Victor line…it really is FABULOUS! I had received a mailer on SHOES, JEWELRY AND HANDBAGS…missed those before or maybe they weren't in the store yet…anyway….had to check them out for MOI or rather for YOU!!!

As I entered the store, I heard this man talking about Career dressing on a microphone…what's this??? A Fashion Show at Carson's???? I couldn't believe it…Did I mention my attire?? It truly was raining…so, I had on this 7/8th hooded YELLOW rain slicker and then my favorite rain boots from the Paul Smith collection 2004. They have a wild pattern on them and I LOVE THEM! I was wearing a skirt, so basically all you could see was the rain slicker and boots…quite fetching! Oh, did I mention I had my wallet, phone and keys in a Ziploc plastic bag…couldn't take a chance on ruining my FAB Handbags!!!! So, I wandered over to see what was going on and THERE in CARSON'S was Lloyd Boston, Fashion Style Expert, who is the spokesperson for Jones New York and written a book on fashion. I had just seen him on a Oprah re-run a few weeks ago and there…there he was only steps away!!!! I stayed to watch the rest of the show and then headed over to the handbags…which are FABULOUS by the way. The oversized clutch has a V at the closure…which really could be possibly confused with V for VALENTINO and I think you should just make the assumption that it is the LATTER! BUY IT NOW!

As I was paying…I happened to notice Mr. Boston (who is very cute, with a nice smile and much shorter in person than he looked on TV) was walking right past MOI! So, I just stood there, smiled and welcomed him to Chicago (He had luggage, so I assumed he wasn't from CHI-TOWN). I pointed to my ensemble and said that this is fashion in Chicago! He smiled and said, "LOVE THE POINTY-TOED WELLIES!!"

Thought you might enjoy the recipes on this link from WALGREEN's! Who knew they have recipes on their eblast!

Friend, Lori Witz, formerly of Chicago, now of Hilton Head Fame and well-known fashionista was visiting this week. Of course, we met to chat and SHOP!!!! I showed here those very cute booties from Payless and she was hooked!!! And she was wearing a very cute Black Anorak from the Simply Vera Line at KOHL'S! I went online and bought it ASAP! It is adorable!!!!

And I have to tell you all again to got to TARJAY! The Mossimo pointy toed raspberry-toned patent leather (or pleather) ballet flats are such a hit! I wore them this week and EVERY person I met commented on how FAB they were! Plus, the Mary Janes, with ruffle detail in a lavender color appeared in a fashion segment in a local newspaper…..Need I say anything MORE!

I am so glad life is so engaging. I often marvel at the WEALTH of material I have to work with each week!

Kisses, P